Anyone have a twin flame who is married (but not to you?)

awakeningheart · #1 17-10-2010, 10:42 PM

I do. We are both married. But to other people.

That's it really. It's just so painful.

alleigh · #2 18-10-2010, 12:32 AM

I do. I am recently divorced (one month out)...he is on the starting end of his. But, I know that it has to end naturally and not because of me. But, you're not alone. It is hard.

Lynn · #3 18-10-2010, 12:38 AM

Hello

I do as well. He and I are both in happy marriages BUT not with eachother. NOR if there was a possibilty for us to be together would we be.

I am one to see the possitives in things....not together for a reason. I care about this man very much and we get on very well but I have a choosen mate. I have a happy life.

Be happy with friendship....as that in itself has a HUGE value.

Lynn

Miko · #4 18-10-2010, 01:17 AM

I hear it is quite common for this to happen. many times twin souls marry the same kind of spouses too, lol. I'm not married, and my ts is not incarnate in this dimension. I'm sure it must be hard, but both of you may have karma to work out with your spouses or chose to be seperate in order to be more independant.

#5 18-10-2010, 02:09 AM

Mine isn't married, but I am. His personality in this life is too adventurous for me and I'm happy right where I am, but I do wonder what it's like to have a relationship with that deep connection in it. I'm sure this isn't the first time we've lived our lives apart, which is why I feel a bit lonely and sad but not like I *need* to be with him. The happy pills help, too. :-D

#6 18-10-2010, 02:29 AM

How do you know who your twin soul is?

#7 18-10-2010, 03:34 AM

Oh trust. YOU KNOW. Its unmistakeable. There's the empathic/telepathic connection, intense love/passion, not needing to speak to communicate, feeling like you've known them forever,the list goes on.

#8 18-10-2010, 09:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Lynn

Hello

I do as well. He and I are both in happy marriages BUT not with eachother. NOR if there was a possibilty for us to be together would we be.

I am one to see the possitives in things....not together for a reason. I care about this man very much and we get on very well but I have a choosen mate. I have a happy life.

Be happy with friendship....as that in itself has a HUGE value.

Lynn

Thank you for this, this is what I have been mulling over in my mind this last week.
Putting the twin flame thing aside (as I am really not sure what I believe with regards to that), the person I have this intense connection to is with someone, has been for 13 years. I have been with my husband for 11 years (someone I share an even more intense connection with, only different).

What I have recently done is to accept how I feel about this guy. Now I can begin to see that what I really truly want from him is his love and affection as a friend, and not a life partner. I am happy with my husband, he is the most wonderful man I have ever met.

awakeningheart · #9 18-10-2010, 10:07 AM

Thank you for your responses..it's good to know that I'm not alone.

I accept what I feel and try not to dwell on what 'could be'...my life is very good as it is so I guess I have to look at this as a blessing.

Dynamist...I don't know how to explain how you just 'know' but you do. Before it happened to me I would have scoffed at the idea..I had never heard of the twin flame concept until my life was turned upside down by reconnecting with him (we were together briefly many years ago). It has shaken me to the core and 'awakened my heart'..it is all good. Just hard to deal with sometimes.

psychoslice · #10 18-10-2010, 10:09 AM

Yea, my sister.