Dreaming of The Same Person?

[MOLA]

Hello.

A few days ago, I've had a dream where the main focus of the dream (so it seems) was my romance with a co-worker. Last night, I've had a dream once again of the same co-worker and the theme of the dreams seems to be the same: my relationship with her.

In this dream, I couldn't recall the events exactly like the first dream. But I do remember the part where she talked to me and insists that I kill something before I could be with her. I put something inside a barrel and it exploded, whatever it actually is.

Now, what could this mean? When I ask "this" I meant me dreaming about her. Its awfully weird my subconscious would pick her as an object for my dreams.

Thank you.

[H:O:R:A:C:E]

why is it weird that she should be a focus?
would another person be more suitable?

on the thought of "kill something":
first, it is an act of responsibility; you would purposefully, willingly take
on that task, and accept the consequences of it.
the idea involved here is to cease the possibility of life in a particular form...
for example, when people marry, they might forgo the opportunity to
enter into loving relationships (of a romantic kind) with others. your dream
object/person may be saying that you would need to permanently end the
chance that you seek 'loving fulfillment' in a particular direction by
removing the life force from that potentiality... becoming committed to her.
it does seem a bit bass-ackwards, but it would indicate that you are already
in a relationship with this dream person, and in order to take it to the
next level, you would need to be committed.

[MOLA]

Originally Posted by H:O:R:A:C:E

why is it weird that she should be a focus?
would another person be more suitable?

Well, no. I'd might have completely dismissed the dream(s) if they were another person. It's just that, you could say, I was thrown off guard because lately I haven't been thinking of her, let alone to be thinking of her romantically.

Originally Posted by H:O:R:A:C:E

on the thought of "kill something":
first, it is an act of responsibility; you would purposefully, willingly take
on that task, and accept the consequences of it.
the idea involved here is to cease the possibility of life in a particular form...
for example, when people marry, they might forgo the opportunity to
enter into loving relationships (of a romantic kind) with others. your dream
object/person may be saying that you would need to permanently end the
chance that you seek 'loving fulfillment' in a particular direction by
removing the life force from that potentiality... becoming committed to her.
it does seem a bit bass-ackwards, but it would indicate that you are already
in a relationship with this dream person, and in order to take it to the
next level, you would need to be committed.

You know in the first dream, I've dreamt of her suddenly appearing next to me and then we both said nothing there. We just cuddled and talked (but the talking was inaudible). Then mother came home and I had to hide her and her friends that were in the dream (because mom was against me bringing girls home)

So basically, you're saying that I am in a relationship with her on a spiritual level? And that my real relationship with my (now) ex is actually cheating on her?

When we were working together, I did let her know that I was attracted to her. She seems surprised by this and I kind of gotten the hint that maybe she brushed me off here. At this point, me and my (now ex) girlfriend was having an on and off relatoinship and whenever I was off, I would go to my coworker and we'd share dinner...I'd accompany her to the dentist..then I told one her one day if she wants to, I want her to accompany me here in the US.

But since then we haven't talked. Since the dream last night, I immediately tried to get in touch with her but she ignored me. Is this why she's ignoring me?

Thank you for your analysis!

[H:O:R:A:C:E]

in the dream world, your co-worker is representative of a certain energy;
it may not translate into waking life on a one-for-one type basis.
since all that is has a spiritual quality to it somehow/someway, you might
say that you have a spiritual relationship with all that is already
(including that particular person).

i would guess that your coworker has a sense that you are not "serious"
about a relationship with her -- perhaps she sees you as "playing the field".
i would advise that your heed your inner knowing, and proceed according to
your hearts direction (if you're not deeply motivated to pursue that
relationship, then there's no need to worry over it).

[MOLA]

Originally Posted by H:O:R:A:C:E

in the dream world, your co-worker is representative of a certain energy;
it may not translate into waking life on a one-for-one type basis.
since all that is has a spiritual quality to it somehow/someway, you might
say that you have a spiritual relationship with all that is already
(including that particular person).

i would guess that your coworker has a sense that you are not "serious"
about a relationship with her -- perhaps she sees you as "playing the field".
i would advise that your heed your inner knowing, and proceed according to
your hearts direction (if you're not deeply motivated to pursue that
relationship, then there's no need to worry over it).

Maybe this explains why I'm attracted to her when I was working in that company. I couldn't exactly figure out what it is about her that I was attracted to and every time I was with her, I'd become nervous and struggle to find the right thing to say.

My heart was telling me to end the relationship with my (now) girlfriend. We broke up today and this does imply that she's somewhat angry with me at a subconscious level that it translates into the dream?

Am I making sense?

Thank you

[H:O:R:A:C:E]

"finding the right thing to say" sounds somewhat manipulative in nature to me.
(you wish to achieve a specific outcome, so seek to make that happen).
i suggest you just let yourself express your truth, regardless of how things
may unfold for you [it will lead to more truth!].
be authentic, and say/do what seems appropriate in the moment.

your direction of evolution appears solid from my vantage point.