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18-04-2013, 01:04 AM
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Am I a prude?
I have been unlucky in love. Since I have not dated any guy I liked enough to be in a long-term or serious relationship with, I am not as familiar with what is the norm in serious relationships. Do most couples in a serious relationship engage in threesomes?
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18-04-2013, 01:12 AM
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Some? Yes. Most? No.
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18-04-2013, 01:20 AM
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To me, serious relationships do not engage in that sort of thing. I feel that when your intimate with someone your serious about...its about you and them...period. If you want to have an open relationship, well thats a totally different scenario in itself. Thats where the threesome aspect comes into play. Thats just how I believe.
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18-04-2013, 01:22 AM
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Do what feels right to you! That's the important thing. Everyone is different.
From my own experience, I would say that most people in serious relationships do not have threesomes.
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18-04-2013, 01:27 AM
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I think most do not. I would not be interested.
I had a friend who gets into threesomes and foursomes, whatever floats your boat, I guess.
Are you meeting all these men who want this?
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18-04-2013, 01:35 AM
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I also hate how the word 'prude' has developed such a negative connotation in society... People sometimes use it to make others feel bad and pressure them into doing things that don't feel good to them.
If your a 'prude', I say its good to be prudent. :)
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18-04-2013, 01:45 AM
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Yes, I came across a man interested in this. I can't say if past men I dated were into this since I did not stick around long enough to find out. I got mad at this man for revealing his sexual fantasy to me. I am not sure if I had the right to be mad just because I did not like it. I did not have to participate if I did not want to. Recently, I read some relationship advice that stated not to make your man feel ashamed to tell you sexual fantasies. Just checking.
Last edited by twinkle : 18-04-2013 at 02:53 AM.
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18-04-2013, 02:13 AM
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I have to agree with all the above advice. You had the right to tell him you were'nt interested in this without feeling like a "prude"
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18-04-2013, 02:36 AM
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I believe a lot of men fantasize about being with two women. I personally don't see anything wrong with that type of fantasy if all were consenting adults. However, I would never expect anyone I was in a long term relationship with to do something like that. I think the emotions involved in most serious relationships could lead to someone getting hurt, and that's never really a good thing.
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18-04-2013, 02:50 AM
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Talking openly about each other's sexual fantasy is natural and healthy in a committed long term relationship.
BTW, most men have threesome fantasy. They can talk about it but you also need to communicate clearly about your feelings about it.
However, a man that you do not know very well talks to you about threesomes indicates clearly that he is not serious about you and that he is just looking for a short term sex partner.
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