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15-10-2012, 12:04 AM
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Knower
Join Date: Apr 2011
Location: Santa Monica, CA
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I dislike him so much right now
Hi everyone.
My guy has been ignoring me the last 10 days. I send him an email he doesn't respond. I am ignoring him now. He is a 2 hour drive from me and seems to be in his own world lately. All he talks about when we see each other is sex and when he does send me an email is is of other nude men. I am not interested in them.
I am so confused. I feel like dumping him. He won't talk.
Anyone? Thanks for any help...xox
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15-10-2012, 12:16 AM
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You do NOT need to talk to him.
Just email him a polite note to let him know that you are breaking up with him.
If he does NOT show you the respect and does NOT talk to you, you respond to him in the same manner as his.
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15-10-2012, 12:26 AM
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Knower
Join Date: Apr 2011
Location: Santa Monica, CA
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Nada,is he playing with me? I gave so much to this relationship-5 years!
I feel numb
Thank you...hugs
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The last thing he said to me...Pointing to the black sky littered with sequined stars...I've been there and back again~
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15-10-2012, 12:29 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Southwest, USA
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As well you should...feel numb.
I'm so sorry...he's lost that lovin' feeling.
Sigh, I'm so sorry.
We've all been there.
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Prepare yourself for the coming astral journey of death by daily riding in the balloon of God-perception.
Through delusion you are perceiving yourself as a bundle of flesh and bones, which at best is a nest of troubles.
Meditate unceasingly, that you may quickly behold yourself as the Infinite Essence, free from every form of misery. ~Paramahansa's Guru's Guru.
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15-10-2012, 12:34 AM
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Master
Join Date: Nov 2007
Posts: 13,136
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Perhaps you could find someone who would treat you with some respect, this is really not respectful behaviour for friends or lovers. If he's not going to communicate or talk about issues, just wow... better you've found out now instead of another five years down the road :(
I've had this happen to me and it's awful, awful, awful... I'm so sorry.
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15-10-2012, 02:23 AM
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Originally Posted by forevergirl
Nada,is he playing with me? I gave so much to this relationship-5 years!
I feel numb
Thank you...hugs
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No, he is not playing with you.
He is disrespecting you and mistreating you.
Do NOT allow him or others to treat you this way.
You deserve better.
Kick the jerk out to the corner and shut the door.
Be happy that it was just 5years and NOT 6, 7, 8, 9, or 10years. |
15-10-2012, 02:54 AM
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I agree - if he is not talking to you and not treating you the way you deserve to be treated, then it is time to move on.
I would send him an email explaining how you feel (not a mean, nasty email, but honest and open.) Let him know that you will no longer accept this and, if he is not willing to be an adult and treat your relationship with dignity and respect, then you are moving on. Tell him the next move is his - if he wants to work it out, he can let you know. If you still get no answer....well, that is the answer!
Yes, it sucks, and it's hard....but you deserve to be happy  |
15-10-2012, 06:52 AM
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Master
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Australia
Posts: 4,240
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It turned my stomach reading about it. You deserve better than that. Get someone that treats you well and respects you. Why would you bother wanting to talk to a jerk like that. I would not bother emailing him. Why do that? You will only get rubbish in your face. Do not put up with this anymore.
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15-10-2012, 11:35 AM
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With partners, it's really important to recognise when you're happy and when you're not happy. Sounds like he's not making you happy and he doesn't sound very loving.
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15-10-2012, 11:05 PM
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Knower
Join Date: Apr 2011
Location: Santa Monica, CA
Posts: 148
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I would like to thank each of you for helping me with my problem.
I am going to give him the same treatment-silence.
Today was my birthday and he didn't even bother to call me or send me a simple card-so I am no longer a part of his life. Guess he wasn't man enough to tell me we are over.
I love your hearts. Thank you again.
L
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