One is the way they are, not some other way.
The work involved in meditation is sold as the pursuit of the ultimate goal, but sorry, you already are the way you are, and still chase yourself anyway... so ask why is 'this' inadequate? Is 'this' somehow not worthy of 'God's love?'
The meditation isn't chasing anything, it's removing these falsities from the mind.
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