Please help me

[Native spirit]

You and your husband need independant counselling not as a couple you both have issues that need addressing,you can only do this on a one to one basis.everybody is entitles to feel love,but some people are drawn to others who feel the same way,i would advise you to go for individuel counselling before anything else.

Namaste

Dear Glow.
You are loved. If you take few moments seat in a quiet place; let all the thought go and listen. Feel the immense LOVE that surrounds you! You are love and light; never alone. I am sending you my soul to embrace and support you.
When we are so wounded we close our hearts with pain and can not feel the LOVE any more.
Keep on doing every thing you do to help your situation but take few moments every day to seat and feel the Love from Creator and the Love I am sending you!

[TheGlow]

That's guys, you are all wonderful.

Shentao - that always works but when I am down I seldom think to do that so thank you. And thanks for sending me your love. :)

As to the counselling thing. I've been getting it for years and had been well until a large part of my support system crumbled. I'd spent 17 years building it but $ was more important to them.

Anyways after that the lack at home became more critical. I guess I had been using the friendships at my old gathering place to replace what i was missing.

This summer my Dr actually told me to divorce because my husband couldn't give me what I need. He knows him well.

Anyways the couples therapy will at least make us better for others if it can't save us as a couple. I will keep trying. (Hugs)