How I made peace with my enemies

I just wanted to share this little thing that has helped me find peace with my 3 greatest enemies. These are the very people who caused me the most suffering in life up until now.

Last month I started a visualization in which I focused on seeing a white light around them. Even if I felt anger and hurt from all the pain they caused me I would focus only on seeing that light surrounding them. I did this every night before bed and every morning after waking. After doing this all month, something happened...

I recently came into contact with 2 of them and we have found complete closure about the past. I also feel a new kind of love and acceptance for them. I am still doing visualizations on healing the relationship with my third greatest enemy. She caused me more grief than the other 2 put together but even still I feel confident that I am healing the past with this person.

I am certain that what I am doing is working but I must emphasize this important detail. Regardless of how I am feeling about this person in that moment I only focus on seeing light around them. If I were to think about my present feelings I don't think I would be able to find this level of peace. I don't think it's something I can do on an emotional level.

I know some of you reading this are probably thinking I am oversimplifying what's happened. Honestly there is no logical explanation that I can think of for how I am healing these relationships.

Thank you for sharing this method Tera.

[Miss Hepburn]

Excellent, Tera!!!

[psychoslice]

For me it was forgiving and letting go, you don't have to be friends with these people, its the letting go and moving on that is important, but yes, you seem to be doing well.

Oh, no... I don't think you are over simplifying at all!

I recently began using the Hawaiian healing technique described in Joe Vitale's Zero Limits. It was easy to do with someone who was seriously injured or ill.

But I kept thinking about the most hateful and hurtful person in my life. I've done well with it... but I never did healing for her. Finally, this week I did. I sent her love using this technique. I did it for three nights. Monday when I returned to work, I swore she looked better and acted better. She never gave me an ounce of trouble.

On Thursday, out of the blue, the shop foreman asked what I had done to her. He said she seemed positively happy this week! I told him I'd been using a Hawaiian Love healing and he seriously responded with "You're going to have to teach me!"

No one at my work knows about the distant healing I do, so it was interesting that he would even ask me.

So... I fully believe your experience.Thank you for sharing it with us!

Very cool, learning to deal with your enemies can be a challenge sometimes. I tend to ignore mine, but to make friends with them again, interesting!

ill try that

A little note I forgot to mention. I've been using this technique a couple of weeks with different cases of healing and it felt very powerful. However, when I did the healing for this negative woman, I noticed something quite unusual.

I do my healing meditations when I go to bed and continue them each time I stir during the night. When I woke up the first morning after during her healing, I felt incredibly happy!

Normally, I wake up feeling content and peaceful, but this was was remarkable. So I got something out of it too!