Mother has cancer, in a lot of pain.

[Kaere]

Originally Posted by thehermit

Thank you do much for all the love! It really moves me to see that strangers would help and feel empathy/sympathy for one another.

For extra information... I've only skimmed over everything so excuse me if I don't address everything/everyone. My mother fought breast cancer for two years. It spread throughout her whole body within that small period and developed in less than a month. Throughout her treatments she became an advocate, rayed heaily, and spent her remaining years helping others. She was one of the sweetest, kindest, and funniest women I know. She was truly my hero. Sadly, radiation and chemo was making her weaker so we stopped the treatments to allow her to transition peacefully. She had actually gone through all the treatments that they could on her body. She favors the advice of doctors over natural medicine and usually paired her healing with prayer. Every avenue available had already been met and science, in the end, didn't work out well for her (it was one of the reasons for her death actually). However, I do recognize that it is helpful for other people... but it just wasn't in my mother's plan I suppose. Throughout her decline hundreds of people came to visit her in the hospital and that alone was comforting enough. I never knew how many lives she had touched. I also feel, that in an odd way, her passing was a blessing. She had helped so many people and our difficulty was everyones gain. I saw people have old hurts and needs fulfilled in those few weeks There were reunions and new friendships built. While I couldnt appreciate it then, I know how much my other would have wanted that to happen. My mother passed but I know she is doing well. In fact, as weird as this may sound, she left her own body peacefully before her body actually passed away (body wasn't cold, organs weren't failing, etc). I'm confident that she's safe, blessed, and out of pain now.

I just wanted to come back and thank you all for the messages and prayers! It truly means a lot.

And major apologies for not writing back sooner!
:)


Love,

The Hermit

My condolences on the loss of your mother thehermit I agree, she is no longer in pain and that can be taken as a comfort. If you need to talk about anything, my pm door is always open.

Love and comfort to you...

Originally Posted by thehermit

My mother has cancer and I was wondering if anyone could send her some relief (and if possible healing). I hate seeing her in pain and I feel like there is nothing I can do. I'm feeling kind of desperate and all I want to do is help.

Sorry, I know this is a lot to ask. But if anyone could help it would mean a lot to me.

Cancer is an ACIDIC condition which often passes IF one is willing to ALKALIZE the body through proper diet. Movement is also required to move the cancerous condition out of the body. Classical Stretch combined with Meditation and dietary corrections will restore your mothers health but only if she is willing to live and make changes. If not, and many will not make changes, She should make her final preparations and you should begin to read: "Death and Dying by Elisabeth Kubler Ross"

Study those who overcame cancer through nutrition ........

Thank you all for your replyes.....


... i don´t want anymore....

@kaere: Thank you so much! That means a lot :)

@ Racer X: by the time I had written it, in hindsight, it may have been too late. Within days (actually, more like hours) she lost ability to move or respond to anyone. I do find that sort of information though and once I'm through with any sort of grieving I will probably look into it. However, right now I don't feel like it would be the best time. Thanks though! I have others in my life who have cancer, I will try to forward them this information. :)

@ healingangelus: 7luminaries & the others are right.

In terms of my mother, she chose to go. And boy did she go peacefully. The event was a *celebration* of her life that brought even some of the most expected together. A lot of people grew spiritually, found emotional support, and made connections when they needed it most. I feel like that was not only my mom's last gift but possibly even her purpose. Before she passed (and even after) a group of people had put more focus on their own health, their own spirituality, and some are even hoping to research cancer further. I have little doubt that she was meant to pass. And as for others death, hopefully this won't sound morbid, but I feel the same way. Sometimes it is in someones divine planning. Also, that person (if I understand correctly) should be willing and open to it. Otherwise it's like giving someone a paddle to help themselves but the person being to stubborn or nearsighted to see it.

What most important is the effort, the care, and love put into it and I was very moved by that alone. I think most people would be. Don't be too down on yourself. I hope you see this post and are truly able to feel the appreciation I have for you and everyone else on this forum.

[7luminaries]

Originally Posted by Racer X

Cancer is an ACIDIC condition which often passes IF one is willing to ALKALIZE the body through proper diet. Movement is also required to move the cancerous condition out of the body. Classical Stretch combined with Meditation and dietary corrections will restore your mothers health but only if she is willing to live and make changes. If not, and many will not make changes, She should make her final preparations and you should begin to read: "Death and Dying by Elisabeth Kubler Ross"

Study those who overcame cancer through nutrition ........

Very good information RacerX.

Cancer often also has a LOT to do with emotional and spiritual states.
As much if not more than physical causes...which in many cases are a reflection of emotional and spiritual aspects or issues. Though the reverse can also be true...there is a feedback loop.

Often cancer is just another a pointer to look within and find resolution and peace and balance in our lives.

Not that dietary changes are not good and helpful, and sometimes key! But this seems to vary greatly from one person to the next.

Peace and blessings,
7L

[Belle]

thehermit, I've just read this, I'm sending you thoughts of comfort as you grieve.