I think that most people would agree with your 'dislikes'...
My good lady had a spiritual reading yesterday, and she discovered we had been together in a past life - I apparently had to leave her for a while to go off to fight in some kind of war, but I didn't return, and she waited and waited for me, she put a flower in her hair each day, and yearned for me, but I believe I was killed.
She has always had a huge theme of abandonment running through this lifetime - her father left when she was very young, and never wanted to have anything to do with her again. And some of the men in her life have abandoned her.
Perhaps some of the themes of a past life come back to 'haunt' us in our present lifetime... So that we can overcome them... Our connection was unresolved, and we are destined to reunite in this lifetime after much heartache and loneliness in both of our lives...
But on a more positive note, our likes are so uncanny, it's unbelievable... I knew for sure the first time I connected with her, which was through her writing, that she was my soulmate... Her words are like reading my own... Sometimes I don't even realise it was something she had written!
When I first visited her, I saw her collection of films, and it was so spooky, as it was almost identical to my collection! Even some of the really obscure films I had where there also!
We love the same music, are affected by the same things, and we have the same thoughts on virtually everything, and we even look similar - a friend of mine commented we could be mistaken for brother and sister!
She has helped me to find that within me which needed a good look at, and whenever I need guidance, she has the knack of saying the right things at the right time...
And she has inspired the most prolific writing within my soul...
I am so lucky to have found this beautiful and deeply talented and spiritual woman in my life... I won't ever let go...