First Birthday with him

[FairyCrystal]

Friday he came over for my birthday, which was Saturday, he just went home about an hour ago.
My first birthday with him, or as he said "The first birthday we celebrate together."
And it was great! Good to have him stay over for 2 nights, usually it's just the one because he's got so little free time, so now we had time to go out, which we did.
I got a gorgeous birthday card, beautiful flowers, the oracles cards I'd wanted hadn't gotten in yet (just been released but that will come), but I got a ring
And finally he met my son last night.
Absolutely brilliant birthday! And I'm happy, although at the moment it's a little dimmed, always the case after he's just left. I never like the switching back to not being together anymore. I am whole on my own, but it just is not the same when we're apart.

[Faith33]

Aww, that sounds wonderful FairyCrystal!
Happy belated birthday and Happy Mother's Day!
Just yesterday I was listening to an Esther Hicks video and she (well, Abraham) talked on the subject of missing someone when we are not in the vortex. We are not in alignment. When we are in alignment, the love and togetherness is always there, leaving no room for "missing".
I found it to be very true. My older son lives thousands if miles away but I rarely find myself missing him these days because I know we are both in alignment and the love is always there. It's a wonderful feeling....

So happy for you.

[FairyCrystal]

Yes, that's correct, I've noticed that too. But it's hard to stay aligned when the one you love is leaving again, plus I had a short night so I'm tired. Neither help to either stay or get there, haha.
What does usually help me is to think of this brilliant line in the interpretation of the "Mending" card of the Wisdom of the Oracle deck: "Just think, what would love do?"
That always helps me to raise my vibration, even now as I'm typing, because I know what love would do: be and stay on the high flying disk. Be happy and joyful and uplifting.
I'll get myself there again, just that the quiet is deafening, not just sound-wise.

[Faith33]

Originally Posted by FairyCrystal

"Just think, what would love do?"
That always helps me to raise my vibration, even now as I'm typing, because I know what love would do: be and stay on the high flying disk. Be happy and joyful and uplifting.

Hehe, adopting this method of raising vibration... I love it!
It automatically shifts ones mood and beautiful visualizations take place when the question of what love would do is asked.
It isn't always easy to stay in that state of joy, been battling with the concept myself, but when it happens, it sure feels wonderful!
You will get there once again... what would love do?

[FairyCrystal]

Brilliant question, isn't it :)
Always brings more ease and lessening of resistance, and if the latter wasn't too bad, it often instantly puts me back on the high flying disk :)
Feeling much better already. We made real beautiful new memories together. And totally happy with my beautiful ring. Means a lot to me!

[ssdm1]

Originally Posted by FairyCrystal

Friday he came over for my birthday, which was Saturday, he just went home about an hour ago.
My first birthday with him, or as he said "The first birthday we celebrate together."
And it was great! Good to have him stay over for 2 nights, usually it's just the one because he's got so little free time, so now we had time to go out, which we did.
I got a gorgeous birthday card, beautiful flowers, the oracles cards I'd wanted hadn't gotten in yet (just been released but that will come), but I got a ring
And finally he met my son last night.
Absolutely brilliant birthday! And I'm happy, although at the moment it's a little dimmed, always the case after he's just left. I never like the switching back to not being together anymore. I am whole on my own, but it just is not the same when we're apart.

I'm so happy you had such a wonderful time. Happy Birthday to you.

So far in our reconnection I've not been able to spend more than a few hours at a time with him. When I start to long, I try to just be thankful he's back in my life at all and for the reconnection. Not always easy to do.

[FairyCrystal]

Thank you, ssdm!

[clueless]

Happy birthday FairyCrystal , Im so glad for you

Take a paper notebook or a private folder somewhere and write everything, every small details of how wonderful it was and how wonderful you felt, make those moments lasts, so that you have a way of going back to those lovely days and having something to grasp on all the time.

Focus on all those positive things, take this knowledge you have on tf or sc as something positive, ignore negative things you read about it since you have so much positive things to focus on