Can anybody else understand this where their twin is concerned? I will try explain it best I can. When I first got with him 6 years ago, we had the best 6 months together. He then one night turned round and said to me he couldn't be with me and I should find somebody who would treat me the way I deserved. It was like a stab to the heart. So I left him and I met somebody else. I know this hurt him but what else could I do?? I settled down with this man and had my daughter, and my twin has always been in my life in the background, always told me he loves me, he has never felt like this about anyone in his life and that we will be together one day. Asked me to marry him at one point.
Anyway fast forward to the present, and the past year me and my twin have been become really close again. I've split with my partner in all this (it was on the cards anyway before my twin came back into my life properly) Because my feelings became overwhelming and we had drifted slightly, I decided to give myself a bit of a break from my twin and cut contact. He came forward after 4 weeks sending me a beautiful song, telling me he missed me and he loved me. We had a wonderful afternoon, and I have seen him a few times since then.
Now,he's kind of saying to me again, I have the chance to possibly move into a property near him and he's telling me to go for it, but in the next breath he's saying, I will put in a good word for you with such and such a person. Constant mixed messages. He's driving me mad!