My best friend doesn't understand the dynamic with my TF

[LadyMay]

Originally Posted by olhosdeamendoa

Actually is not the relationship that requires a lot of work or is complicated. We do get along really well.

What I feel requires work is me with myself.

As I said previously, I've had guys before who would enable the kind of behavior I was having (lashing out, get into a bad mood, etc) and I would lose respect for them and they were just enabling my behavior.

This guy now has boundaries and he doesn't participate in this kind of childish behavior from me when I am like that. That is what I need to work on, with myself.

From what I know, this is the "normal" dynamic between TF's.

I think regardless of the romantic relationship this is about your relationship with your friend, friends don't always agree and that is fine, but if you're set on trying to convince her as you are everyone else on this thread then she may get tired and withdraw. It is better to let your romantic relationship play out, it either works out or it doesn't, in the end you don't want to lose a friend over it.