Possible to be TOO healthy for most other people?

[Saggi]

Thank you for this thread,,,

I'm just at a point where I'm venturing out,,,

And seeing signs of same old, same old,,,

At the moment, it's at see how it goes point,,, Give it a chance,,,,

I am involved this time tho,,,

My steps have been brought right forward, so the line to cross is between us now, not past me,,

Positive journeys to everyone

Love and hugs

Jo

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Originally Posted by John DiFool

Figured this was more on-topic here than in the SMTS forum. I sometimes ponder the forces which bring people together, and also drive them apart. While people can get attracted/attached to each other for "good" reasons, oftentimes it is true that they'll hook up as a chance to work through a lot of negative stuff. And, when they fail to do so in a healthy way, you can get a pretty dysfunctional relationship.

So what happens when you've cleaned out most of the crud from your basement and attic, honed your sensibilities to a fine razor edge and shined your soul that much more brightly, and wander out into the Wilderness of Dating? Will most people pass you by since you lack any of those dark "hooks" that might otherwise draw them in? You refuse to play those old games in which you have long since lost interest and have outgrown, but they still want to play them.

Is this at all clear to anyone else?

Why wouldnt you attract the one who will meet you in the space where love can blossom fully without restriction...without all the crud..if your heart is open of course....Perhaps she is out there waiting for your paths to cross.....