Expectations and mother in law

[astralsuzy]

I think that is O.K. Talk to them and see if you can work it out. That is the best outcome. If you have done everything and it does not work then it may be a good idea not to see them that often or just to see them for short visits or if it is that bad then not at all. The best outcome for everyone is to sit down and work things out.

Its true that people believe that your saas can never be your mom but if you try to put yourself at her place once you may understand the scenario much better. Parents are always worried for their children specially after they are married or in a relationship. They have a fear of sharing and losing them. Stay lil calm and try to make everything positive as your partner would never want a friction between the person he loves the most. You can read more on our website izofy on this. This might help you somewhere.

[Native spirit]

It seems to me that they are afraid of losing contact with their son so they pester you, they know you are home even though you have kids,they feel the need to control you. to mould you into someone who does as they say,i think they fear your independence, you can stand on your own. this frightens them ,they are missing their son, but that does not give them the right to slate you for not contacting them. your partner needs to tell them this.

Namaste