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Originally Posted by Dean1973
I met someone just so amazing, so different from any previous people/relationships I've drawn into my life - I really resonate with her and see myself 'trying' in certain ways, and yes there are obviously self esteem issues, fears etc, which come up quite strongly with something really good coming to me, but it was more the thought that came to mind - that I should stay exactly as I am, because there are reasons we've been brought together, and I don't want to move away from that ..disrupt the harmony of what it's for (if I can put it that way).
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Yeah, when I've gotten close to someone or felt loved in a way I hadn't before, my insecurities have come out & it's made me want to impress them. But as you mentioned, things were already good - just let them go as they will & offer who we are to the relationship. If it's something real, the only chance it has to blossom is to be based on genuinity.
On the other hand... Being ourselves becomes... becoming ourselves - because each experience & relationship can't help but shape us somehow. (harmony... :)
I like how you related "holy" with making one w
hole.
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