...The Sexiest Trait a person can have...IMO

[T.L.M.]

Looks can hook a person....

But what is it that keeps them wanting more?

My opinion?

INTERDEPENDENCE!!!!

Independence/interdependence is attractive because it means they have their own thoughts and interests outside of me - creates a much deeper and interesting person.

You have to have a lot of other good qualities. Like you've gotta have some sort of level-headedness, intellect, and confidence!

Independence/interdependence is attractive because it means they have their own thoughts and interests outside of me - creates a much deeper and interesting person.

"It shows that they don't need me."

"Because you're creating your own path for others to follow."

On the opposite end of the spectrum, the biggest turnoff for me and most others?

------> NEEDINESS can be a deal-breaker to some <------


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This can be in the form of expecting constant communication, not wanting to hang out with their own friends, or showing irritation when their significant other is unavailable. If this sounds like you, cut it out. You have to know how to be secure with yourself and in return, you won't need a mate to make you feel complete. Whoever recognizes this about you will appreciate you as a partner even more.

But there's a difference between being self-reliant and playing hard to get. It's only a matter of time before that becomes old, and the chase is no longer fun or going anywhere. Independence is a characteristic, not a game. Many appreciate this quality in a potential partner because it proves you'll be a good teammate who can pull their own weight.
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(I did not write this article; Just agree 144,000% with these points. Just a message from my higher self; thought I'd share with 'yall)


-True Love Manifest xoxo

'Keep the faith strong my steadfast love covenant of !i!GOD!i!