Overcoming the Fear of Judgement

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Originally Posted by silent whisper

I sometimes dont tell people my age...that keeps them guessing..and its intersting to see how the relationship unfolds without the age factor in the mix...age to me is irrelvant..

I think on here it is relevant ... I always try to remember to check ages in profiles before I interact with new members because it is a family site ... if there was no child membership I wouldn't bother ...

[Mr Interesting]

I often feel surprised when I remember how old I am!

This guy, who in retrospect was quite a miserable cur, said to me when he was 35, and I was 33, that it hit at 34 and I'd be feeling it soon enough... my age, feeling my age.

I'm now on the tipping point of 50 and still haven't felt any real difference. I'm a little slower but I think that's only because I've slowed down and when I try to go fast - I can't sustain that for as long as I might have... but then again I also feel I could get that fitness back resonably easily, or enough of as semblance of it to feel entirely comfortable with.

Okay, it's a little perturbing that I dance and around and have fun much more than people half my age, usually, but I don't care... as long as I'm enjoying it all what matter is the amount of hair on my head and teeth in my mouth... lots have gone!

I wanna be like the dogs I've been honoured to enjoy company with... run around like a mad bugger, barking at birds and chasing the cats, till I can't do it anymore and fall over dead. None of this lingering stuff...here - there. No Mr in-between's.

I wanna be like the dogs I've been honoured to enjoy company with... run around like a mad bugger, barking at birds and chasing the cats, till I can't do it anymore and fall over dead. None of this lingering stuff...here - there. No Mr in-between's. __________________

Yup, go on , have fun, A Life is but a spit or a fart in the enternity. So what say...Analyse it to the grave or enjoy it to the grave by having a little fun.

So many folks scrutinizing the I am , i says what are you ? a blink a little tiny spark, gone in an instant. My epiphany for today. i know a lot of people who already died, this must surely mean that it's gonna be my turn at some point. So what should i be doing? scrutinizing a transitory life or living the thing ?...Who knows what the correct answer is, maybe there is'nt one, all hail the mad bugger's . genius and insanity hold one anothers hand.

Originally Posted by Neville

Yup, go on , have fun, A Life is but a spit or a fart in the enternity. So what say...Analyse it to the grave or enjoy it to the garve by having a little fun.

So many folks scrutinizing the I am , i says what are you / a blink a little tiny spark, gone in an instant. My epiphany for today. i know a lot of people who already died, this must surely mean that it's gonna be my turn at some point. So what should i be doing? scrutinizing a transitory life or living the thing ?...Who knows what the correct answer is, maybe there is'nt one, all hail the mad bugger's . genius and insanity hold one anothers hand.

Post of the day!

Tricks I have found to defeat telepathic judgment by others:

1. The rule is: Don't judge / don't be judged, otherwise hatred propagates like a virus. There is no other choice: don't judge / don't be judged. This is unconditional love, our true nature.

2. We are the directors of the life game. Judging each other doesn't make sense even if you kill me.

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