Twinflame issues

Flyer · #1 13-06-2017, 05:00 AM

Hello, I am new here, it is my first post. It is like a question, I really need help and support. I am a little bit lost in relationship with my twinflame. So I have met my twinflame about year ago and I overcome a lot of things in my life, a lot of changes, fears, etc. My twinflame is in relationship, he have always been since we met and that is the thing which probably confuse me the most. In our realiotinship with my twinflame there have been a lot of push and pull. Moreover we have a ten year gap between us and that makes things even harder. However, I would have forgotten him and move on if he wouldnt be flirting with me, I mean he takes the initiate by himself, I do not force him to do that, because he has a girlfriend. Also we work together, so it is impossible to completely not see each other at times. After a lot have happened, I am trying to just live my life, enjoy a lot of new activities and that is going well for me. I am trying to let them be, just let them be together and I really suceed in this. I thought that I let him go, but when we met again, which is unavoidable, I was messed up again. Because I hoped that if I let him go he will come back to me and will show love more and more, but he didnt. And now i feel like i havent got enough attention from him, i feel like im trying to make our relatinship grow only by myself and he does nothing while living happily with his girlfriend. So now I lost atraction to him, I dont want to see him at all, I want to forget him, but how I said, we work together so it is imposible. And i feel that something is wrong if i dont feel attraction to him, i dont want to see him. This happened after i tried to love myself more and tried to concentrate more on my life, new activities and growing by myself. Thanks for help

shoni7510 · #2 13-06-2017, 08:43 AM

Hello Flyer and welcome to spiritual forums. Please feel free to visit the twinflames forums and discuss your issue with like-minded people there. I hope you will enjoy it here.

#3 16-06-2017, 04:34 PM

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And i feel that something is wrong if i don't feel attraction to him, i don't want to see him. This happened after i tried to love myself more and tried to concentrate more on my life, new activities and growing by myself.

I always tell people to love themselves first because when you do, you're more capable of seeing what is truly meant fro you and what isn't.

Its not my place to say hes not. but it kinda seems like you're coming to that realization yourself. Also honesty is a key part of being whole. do you really want to engage in a relationship with someone who possibly isn't being honest with his loved one?

Baile · #4 16-06-2017, 06:14 PM

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And i feel that something is wrong if i dont feel attraction to him

There is nothing wrong with that. He's unavailable, he doesn't seem all that interested, and so you lost interest in him. That's natural.

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So now I lost atraction to him, I dont want to see him at all

That's good. He's married. You're 17. You've got your whole life ahead. Forget him and get on with you life. And find someone single, don't get mixed up in someone's marriage.