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Originally Posted by rip_ding_dong_football
hey i know what it's like to have such a confusing occurrance when there is really nobody around to console you and guide you through in dealing with the experience. it's very lonely. the only places to turn are forums such as this and sometimes strangers have good advice but it's not the same as having a good friend or family member right there to help.
just keep the memory of this experience with you. let it be your consolation and comfort in his passing, i think that may have been what he intended on when he confronted you. to give you something you could hold on to for comfort when he can't be there.
take care :)
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Thank you so much for replying to my thread and thank you so much for understanding where Im coming from .
It is pretty lonely to go through something especially when you have no idea about it and then it happens out of nowhere and you feel like theres nobody who will really get it . Its a very lonely place to be when you feel like youre in the dark about something and it seems as if nobody can help ... Im glad you understand.
I dont think Ill ever forget the experience because it was such an extraordinary one. I have never been through anything like this before. Its difficult for me to look at my experience as comfort from his passing because Im so confused and stuff about the whole thing. The experience in itself was lovely ... its the details that I didnt/dont understand .
I like your opinion though . I think it would be a very nice thought for me to have.