I don't want to be a medium. How Do I stop?

[alcyone]

I want to stop being a medium. I've had ghosts attacking me, making me have telepathic conversations with them. I guess on my part I will stop engaging with any entity because Im scared. It is hard because I want guidance, and then these ghosts come in and I think I'm talking to my spirit guide then they're telling me wisdom, then they come out of no where with "all jokes aside I want to be your lover"

I just don't want to be a medium.

[Zeronknight]

From my experience, you can try and ignore it, but you can't change it. I've tried ignoring it too, which has caused some problems for me, my abilities are just....eh now. I need more practice lol.

Have you looked up for ways to protect yourself? Maybe that imaging a white light around you that you know will protect you and give off positive vibes.

I'm not sure if you can actually just throw away being medium, to be honest, that will always be there, I don't think you can change it. All I can say is, go with your intuition, ask for protection.

Also, have you tried asking your spirits guides, what it's like when they're near you? This has been said to me, I take no credit for suggesting it. But, maybe getting the feeling of what it's like when they're near you might help allot.

Sorry if I wasn't helpful! It might be bad for you now, but if anything, I would embrace the gift and hopefully it will get better. :)

[Sojourner2013]

Originally Posted by Flyawaywithme

I want to stop being a medium. I've had ghosts attacking me, making me have telepathic conversations with them. I guess on my part I will stop engaging with any entity because Im scared. It is hard because I want guidance, and then these ghosts come in and I think I'm talking to my spirit guide then they're telling me wisdom, then they come out of no where with "all jokes aside I want to be your lover"

I just don't want to be a medium.

Hi Flyawaywithme,

There is a technique that you can use to "block" negative/unhelpful entities from bothering you, but you need to be assertive about it.

Depending on your spiritual beliefs, you can substitute any religious figure for one more suitable to you. The following is just an example.

"If you do not acknowledge Christ as your saviour and will not serve my highest good, you may not speak to me." This will weed out the negative information from the positive information. If you say this assertively to any energy giving you nonsense/hard time, they will go away. I hope this helps. Don't let them destroy such a beautiful gift. Best wishes!

[alcyone]

I'm giving that a shot sojourner. I know no one can really just save me from this. Woke up last night to two different people screaming so I'm not in the best mood today..

[Parma]

My aunt prayed for the gift to be taken away. It worked.

[Native spirit]

Its not about wishing for your gift to go away rather than you learning to embrace it,no one can make you do what you dont want to do,we all have free will, its learning how to use your gift using protection is one thing there are many ways to do this,the most popular is to visulise yourself surounded by a pure white light.this is your protection bubble.
grounding yourself visulise roots growing from under your feet anchoring you to the ground.
you could attend a spiritulist church and speak to people there you will find you are not alone.
others are starting out to and could help you.

Namaste

[santacruz18]

For me, it would seem you have "no boundaries" established at all. Do you keep the front door of your home open for any one to just walk in? You need to establish FIRM boundaries what you will allow and what you won't. I do a white light prayer every day. Spirits are never allowed in my bedroom, especially at night when I go to bed, ever. You need to put this in place, firmly every day until you get control back.

[Blue Tiger]

Originally Posted by santacruz18

For me, it would seem you have "no boundaries" established at all. Do you keep the front door of your home open for any one to just walk in? You need to establish FIRM boundaries what you will allow and what you won't. I do a white light prayer every day. Spirits are never allowed in my bedroom, especially at night when I go to bed, ever. You need to put this in place, firmly every day until you get control back.

Exactly my thoughts!

It sounds as if you need to "begin at the beginning" of mediumship, i.e. protecting yourself. Clearly you are able to work with spirits, but you NEED to be in control or it will drive you batty.

ALWAYS ground and protect yourself, since spirits seem to be coming at you randomly. That means they can sense your openness and just dash in and start talking or screaming. You need to bring order to this chaos, and ground/protect is the first step. If you don't know how to ground/protect or want to find better imagery there are some very good posts on the internet.

Then, if you know your spirit guide/s ask them for help. Many mediums ask for a Gate Keeper. A Gate Keeper controls the inflow of spirits, basically making them stand nicely in line and wait their turn. From what I've seen, any of your guides can fill this role, but generally you have to ASK FOR HELP. They won't intrude unless you ask them to.

Also, make it clear in your prayers, meditations, work with spirits that ONLY positive energies are allowed near you. It isn't difficult, simply state firmly and with conviction that negative energies/spirits are not welcome and must leave. Surround yourself with white light (or whatever color light makes you feel warm and safe - personally I like amber colored light) and MEAN what you say.

Finally, to help keep your home from being chaotic with spirits running around willy-nilly I suggest you smudge. You can use sage or incense. I don't think it matters that much, as long as there is a bit of smoke to carry your intentions into the corners of each room. As you walk around the room/s keep saying to yourself or aloud "Negative energy is not welcome here! All negative beings and energy must leave NOW!" (or something to that effect).

Some people, myself included, sprinkle sea salt across doorways and window sills to prevent anything negative from entering. This even helps with spiders and insects, as the salt is uncomfortable to them and they generally won't cross a salt line.

Basically, just take charge of the situation. It's your life, not theirs, so you need to be in control.

Best of luck!

[Rozie]

I don't blame you. I don't like it either, but it isn't a choice, not really.

There are many ways to deal with it, and there is a way for you to deal with it. You have to do the work. There is no choice.

Even if your work is to get it to go away, that is still work.

What BlueTiger said is good. You do have high guidance but they will sit back and watch you work it out. It is something you have to do yourself but make no mistake, you have plenty of help to do it.

You do have a reason to complain. I hear you.

[Patrycia-Rose]

My feeling is you need some guidance/a mentor. I don't know how possible / difficult that would be. The other possibility would be getting some guidance from someone like Tony Stockwell.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Path-Medium...tony+stockwell