falling in love with many people?

my hearts been crazy lately, i find myself having feelings for several people at once.
Why is this happening?
the only thing i can think of is my heart chakra may be opening, but it kind of sucks.

[LadyMay]

Yeah it could be your heart opening. And yes it does kinda suck

But it's all worth it in the end.

[charly233]

Falling in love with many people sounds wonderful to me. We need a world where everyone loves everybody else. The more we love the better it is for everybody. There should be no limit on love it seems to me.

[Nymphea]

Originally Posted by charly233

Falling in love with many people sounds wonderful to me. We need a world where everyone loves everybody else. The more we love the better it is for everybody. There should be no limit on love it seems to me.

It IS wonderful! I have experienced this myself and it is great yet hard to live with sometimes. Especially when you are married and have no space to do something with all the love you're feeling

[charly233]

Originally Posted by Nymphea

It IS wonderful! I have experienced this myself and it is great yet hard to live with sometimes. Especially when you are married and have no space to do something with all the love you're feeling

Glad you have had such a great experience even though it can be hard to live with sometimes!

[girlsearching]

Originally Posted by charly233

Falling in love with many people sounds wonderful to me. We need a world where everyone loves everybody else. The more we love the better it is for everybody. There should be no limit on love it seems to me.

you're right love shouldn't be limited and I feel as if people always assume loving many people is a bad thing and they're are quick to initiate sex with love. I need to learn to open my Heart chakra.

Some people are born this way, it's called polygamy I think... They love many at the same time, and even have relationships with many. And as long as the partners of these connections don't mind, then why not.
Sometimes when two people separate (but person A still loves person B), and when person A remarries, he has to convince person C that he doesn't love person B anymore. In some cases it sounds weird - why should he stop? What would make him stop loving? But in some situations, it feels like our mind makes us stop. It's like it shuts down the love for person B once the love comes for person C. So maybe we taught our brain to condition itself and to stop loving because we kind of "knew" that person C would require that. Maybe as a collective, we decided that it's important to have one on one relationships and so we taught ourselves to block the love for others.

So maybe, in a different society, we would do the polygamous thing with no problems. Because maybe it's just a matter of teaching your brain to be a certain way. And then you just act out what comes naturally (or rather seems natural since we taught our brain to do it, as a collective).

Although, it's not an easy life then. Unless one wants to try to live among the polygamous people.

Originally Posted by girlsearching

you're right love shouldn't be limited and I feel as if people always assume loving many people is a bad thing and they're are quick to initiate sex with love. I need to learn to open my Heart chakra.

"Love" is often confused with romantic desire and/or a want to be loved by ones prospect(s). There isn't much sense in trying to open one's heart chakra in isolation if talking about the 7 yoga chakras. It won't be powered up properly if the flow of energy through the nadis is failing somewhere below.

Most people I've met in the situation being described have simply released the Venus in themselves, unleashed their emotions. Anahata is as much to do with health and equilibrium, sometimes interpreted as the seat of balance in the body and the point at which worldly pleasures cease to matter.

Romantic love? Its symbol has the two intersecting triangles representing the union of male and female (Shiva and Shakti) that can be interpreted as emotions fulfilled so I wonder about feelings described in this topic coming from an opened heart chakra in the spiritual/yogic path - or some mundane equivalent.

No matter - new romance is always nice. Helps motivate one to keep in shape!

[sea-dove]

I went throu a sudden growth period (frequency shift) which caused me to come in contact with several of my soul mates around the same time. It was quite an interesting time for me. Ive no idea if this is what has happened in your case or not but other then a sudden heart opening, its another thing which could cause this.

[Lucyan28]

Originally Posted by sea-dove

I went throu a sudden growth period (frequency shift) which caused me to come in contact with several of my soul mates around the same time. It was quite an interesting time for me. Ive no idea if this is what has happened in your case or not but other then a sudden heart opening, its another thing which could cause this.

I can relate with your situation sea-dove, for two years I was in contact with my soul mates, with all of them I could've have a great relationship in this life, I've discovered that I have lived with each one of them in previous incarnations. Meeting them and recognizing them in this life has been a precious opportunity.

I'm thankful for that... although in that year it was kinda difficult because I thought that I should choose among them lol... my advice follow your heart there is a very special person, the one that shows more interest in who you are, the one will come to you.