Breakups and Revenge

[Clover]

Keep it friendly with each other, folks. Bringing the topic back to the OP original statement. Make 2017 a plan to move forwards. The needing of 'revenge', holding on to resentment or past hurts, does nothing but keep the vibration alive and functioning. Let it go. Let her go... Releasing resistance allows for the new to come in


respect rule

[Lynn]

Hello

Man I went through the dark night of the soul with the thoughts that I had and at times still have creep in. I would NEVER act upon them but man I had them going strong.

I spent 33 years in a abusive relationship with my ex we had three kids late into the relationship and they too lived through his abuse. I never understood what abuse really was and how deeply it had an effect as I had a good life style and I lived and survived off of that.

It was not til a friend of mine that had lived the abuse got close enough to being in our home to see what I lived that I started to see the hope of freedom on the horizon. Then I met my Mirror Soul here on SF and over a course of many years we found each other as man and wife.

I was looking for ways to "take out" the EX as I truly thought that was the only OUT path there could be.....that was not the path to look at as my kids say Karma Bites.

With careful planning and calm steps I found my path to freedom without revenge. Yet I still would prefer him gone form this World as he is unstable it would not be by my hand.

Revenge is a dish best served cold. So no sm0king guns or me....LOL.

Lynn

[FairyCrystal]

Originally Posted by Lorelyen

Hah!

Well, I intended to leave this topic but here I am back to join the fray.

Unfortunately Fairy omitted to mention that she was very rude about my viewpoint. As it's a public forum I could have retaliated, yeah, avenged in kind but refrained. Her latter tirade didn't inspire a response. She needs to remove the beam from her own eye before trying to remove the mote from mine!

I'm not omitting anything. I wasn't even addressing you in my first reaction in this topic. Don't know why you think I was talking to you either. I was expressing my opinion about the thread's subject. I wasn't aware this was a 1-on-1 discussion with you.
You on the other hand insulted me personally and you keep on doing that.
If you cannot handle a discussion with people who may hold different views from you, don't participate.

[A human Being]

Revenge may feel good in the short-term, but it isn't going to heal the wounds that caused you to feel the need for revenge in the first place.

[A human Being]

Originally Posted by Lorelyen

She needs to remove the beam from her own eye before trying to remove the mote from mine!

A general point, but we would all be better-served by bringing our attention to the mote in our own eye. Let's be honest, we're all living in glass houses, but God help us if we can't help throwing stones.

[Dan_SF]

Originally Posted by 1stworldview8

Revenge Your Ex
So what is the best way to get revenge:

The best revenge is to avoid the Revenge Thoughts at all.

If it did'nt worked, then because one partner has listened to the Ego, and not to Love.

As you are free to choose revenge or to leave it, Remember following statement:

As Devil will support your Revenge, and after it, he will turn back to you.

So will God support you in your forgiveness. God is stronger, but needs to be chosen.

The choice is yours, so choose wisely.


In this world, you may find many evidences of so called Power of the Revenge, but you have to understand that this power is not a power at all.
Maybe many have failed to chose God, but only because the revenge thoughts are like a virus, once they start spreading, you will see many of it.

And in a World of Revenge you would not want to Live.

You want Love and you need love, so choose love, which is the opposite of the Revenge.

The only real use for revenge is to return love for love, and to Return Love for Hate.

[Really!]

Three children 5, 6 & 9 were buried earlier today after being killed by their mother's revenge seeking boyfrien following their break up ...

http://www.koat.com/article/funeral-...t-home/8554110

Currently on Netflix ...
"Married, Single or Dead" ...
Description: This documentary shares the disturbing stories of four British women killed by their exes after changing their relationship status on Facebook.

[IgaWis]

Break up is like taking a divorce. There are lots of difficult feelings of unprocessed hurt, anger, furiousness, sadness or disappointment. They work like invisible cord between partners. It can also show up in dreams as a nightmare, or it can be transformed into an obsession to take a revenge on ex-partner. It will never solve a problem. The situation will be worse because a perpetrator wouldn't feel any better.

[Leyla]

The best revenge is to let karma bite them back. I truly believe that happens if not here than for sure in the next lifetime. I am living proof :)

[Claireanneh]

Not just that there is nothing spiritual, but there is also nothing fulfilling abut the revenge. Neither of the participants of such act don't ever feel any kind of closing.