when things just go wrong

[Kravman]

Best advice I can give apart from the excellent replies here is to know that when youre down is to get up again, and if you go down again, then you get back up again, and again and again etc. Doesnt mean to say you exhaust yourself, rather affirm quietly that that is what you are going to do no matter what gets thrown at you.

When I use affirmations, and it does not seem to be working right I always have a few questions:

Is what I want optimal/best for me?
Is it a matter of not now?
Am I creating my own obstacles?

[lovetruth]

guavablossom,

Such beautiful advice, I love this forum!!!
It sometimes helps to just let go and let spirit. We tend to forget we really are not in control, and let go of expectations of the outcome. You never know what spirit has planned for you, it is usually so much bigger and brighter than what we can imagine but they will not interfere and you need to let them know you are letting them take full control of the situation.

Thank you all,

I just had an outburst...emotions are running high and not in a good way. My darn ego is not letting me let it go. I'm sure the lesson will come and all will be well. Praying that I just let things be. Why do I need to have control? What am I worried about, I am acting out of fear! So not a place I like to be.

Please spirit, help me release these junk emotions, so, that I can just be. What am I holding on to? What good is it doing me or anyone else?

Thank you posters for having this thread. I feel a layer has been lifted, one step at a time...Whew!

Sounds like you are just going through a rough patch. (I think it is better to think of an earthly reason, before looking for an out of this world one.)