Time in different parts of the universe is vastly different to on earth- even on earth, time is slightly different depending on gravity etc. A few minutes if travelling through space at near the speed of light is several years on earth. As Native Spirit said, the time between communications is irrelevent.
I wonder if it is the emotions of people left behind that draw a spirit back- the strong emotional bond is not broken after death. I have heard that extreme emotion such as grief may have a detrimental effect on the soul's after-life journey.
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