Afraid

Originally Posted by Medium_Laura

Very true. You are afraid to know people's innermost thoughts. Which that fear will actually block you from "hearing" those thoughts. Fear is a negative. As long as you have a fear then you cannot grow; it holds you back.

Ha, I do though. Always have in some way sensed what they think. Its more getting to a higher state of awareness that I am afraid of.
The fear doesn't stop me, just a slow hindering of the progress. I'm not afraid of the depth of it all just that I will suddenly know something that may shatter my world. Or that it may take some fun out of life because I can see so much. I know, I feel that I am capable of of becoming very "psychic" or aware or however you want to put it. But I feel like once that happens it kind of a life choice and everything will be colored by something spiritual. No offense but I don't want it to be my entire life!

[Wolfe of Wildwood]

yes, but then I realize I'm more afraid of being ignorant. I don't care that developing these things can be scary 'cause it's worse not knowing what's there.

[Orbie]

Mm but what if you yourself cant actually feel the fear, thats its subconsicous? Could this happen?

Originally Posted by Orbie

Mm but what if you yourself cant actually feel the fear, thats its subconsicous? Could this happen?

Then does it really matter?

Hello

Hey i'm still learning too so i hope a more experienced member can help me out here. But is it not the case where you can learn to tap out? You dont want to be walking around 'open' all day everyday, how exhausting that would be! You could tap in to what you want and need to see or hear? If you did get a random vision you'd learn what to do with it?

Possibly you could ask your guides for assistance here. Where you could say 'Ok guide, im going to so and so's house today for a visit, i just want a plain and simple visit so please keep any visions at bay during my stay there'

Or when you go out to the super market you could ask for the same request.



Bright Blessings

[Orbie]

Originally Posted by DevilishAngel

Then does it really matter?

Great answer and very true

[Orbie]

Tinks - my gut just says its your intention, if you want to be closed then ask, visualise it using any image that helps you (eg lock and key, road sign that says no entry etc etc). You are in charge of it.

Good luck!

I'm not open all day. I have set boundaries. I am a medium/psychic sure, but if information comes to me, then I am meant to know it for my highest good. The reason I know that is because I have set boundaries with my guides and the Universe. That I shall block out any information or energy that is not for my highest good. Ie: warnings about dangers, bad people,etc.

I set boundaries too. I protect myself from unwanted empathic experiences, emotional and physical. I also disconnect from those I need to. I choose not to connect on that level with my boyfriend. I would help him with healing but nothing more.

[Wolfe of Wildwood]

I haven't set boundaries, but I'm not always open. I seem to open and close at random, unless I'm focused. I'm always open when I need to be though. hmm... maybe I do it subconsciously?