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emotional intelligence regarding handing out issues and being able to find solutions
Hey,
The situation: I take on too many issues and problems from others.
What have I done: I learn every moon every day to keep other peoples drama and issues out of me, and this is getting better.
What do I still find difficult: both leaving the problems out of my system before they come in, as well as emotionally intelligently and with consideration (when possible) drawing a boundary and getting the issue where it belongs/where it is best solved or fixed.
The intention of this post is sharing experiences and possible insights, from a place of understanding. The goal is to smoothen my path ahead in letting other peoples problems be theirs, and not mine. No matter how convincing they are that I should fix it for them.
Nuance: people often do not notice they are handing me a problem of theirs. They instant forget and do not at all seem aware of what they put out.
I hope this is clear enough.
Kind regards and with grattitude,
CW
PS: when you write, it could help to intend to have help from (inner) guidance when writing.
While this is not a have-to-do, it may help have a clean response to what I put out here.
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