He got engaged - Page 2

ScarleT · #11 12-01-2016, 04:26 PM

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He is living his life, you need to do the same as painful as it sounds. He is obviously happy with his new union. don't allow his life to overshadow yours, Maybe this is a sign for you to break free and start focussing on yourself and getting out there.

I agree with calineee. Very well said! Listen to calineee, henaM. :-)

BlueCat · #12 13-01-2016, 12:50 AM

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Originally Posted by henaM

Does that mean she is his soulmate or twinflame?
I do know he might be marrying her because she is studying law and it is profitable for him

It doesn't mean she is his TF or soulmate, remember these would be karmic connections just useful for a twin to learn some lessons and finish when the lesson is learnt, being married isn't the end of every hope for a possibilty for you. Many, many marry for some not so deep love reason, it could be money, feel safe, not to be alone, choosing the "best" for them when isn't true or just some think lust or crushing, ego driven feelings are real love. Some runners i believe mistake love for the latter because they don't feel worthy of true love or they don't know what means, yet.
Now, it's time to shine for yourself

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henaM · #13 13-01-2016, 01:51 AM

Is there hope he will come back? and what would make him come back

Inika · #14 13-01-2016, 02:05 AM

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Originally Posted by henaM

Is there hope he will come back? and what would make him come back

No one can tell you that.
My advice. Don't wait around on him. Get out and about and enjoy your life. Be open to meeting new people. Then one day you may say 'who?' when his name is mentioned. Not out of bitterness but because you've gotten on with your life and put the past where it belongs.

Marie · #15 14-01-2016, 01:00 AM

Think about it, tf's are supposed to make the experience they came for here.. If one, or both, haven't made the experience without marrying someone else, one, or both, (probably) will not do what they came for really and the life as such be not so whole. They might have more on their plate next time or might not even have the chance. Remember what you contracted for before you came here might be this, or to learn specifics. So, universe works in it's own time. And would you really want them back, if they lacked severely because of this lesson/plan? Then it would've maybe not worked out.. There's always a higher reason, that you can't see don't mistake this for them not choosing you that would never happen, not with a real tf. Unless it's the plan.
And heaven knows, some thinks it's OK to have YOU on THE SIDE, and their marriage partner too!! Whatever philosophy they have that makes that ok... Some do.. Any things possible. If he's coming back after some year/s it's because he's had what he came for. But, then you might have a trust issue. Unless you take it from the higher point. Who knows, maybe it's even happening to teach YOU something. I think the best you can do, is work on be the person you know in your soul you are and can be, as you would be with him. Then, you'll attract him back maybe. But, there's this possibility too he's not your tf. Or you're destined for a soulmate. That can happen. Because it's very hard sometimes to distinguish between a true tf or near tf or high soulmate.

Marie · #16 14-01-2016, 01:04 AM

Also, tf's are not perfect. It so depends on where they are development wise and spiritually. Even high developed spiritually can have morally, ethically problems or other. Or a big ego. It happens a lot. I've rarely seen any tf that doesn't. If they have check on themselves on all points they probably are through here.