Being in love with yourself

[AlignedWithTheHeart]

I experienced a soul merging once and felt what its like to be in love with myself. It was the best experience of my life. But the moment I started to worry I might lose it, I plummeted into the most intense heartache Ive ever known. Its like a mystical union.

[Alethia]

Hi AlignedwithTheheart

It’s funny how when we show fear, it slips us into an awareness of our physical
body and we see what happens.

When you say soul merging, how did it happen? I’m just wondering if you were meditating, dreaming or awake? Also when you say mystical, how do you define that. Thank you if you can explain further.

I’ve had experiences with merging, but it wasn’t so pleasant in my fears either, in fact it helped open them up in me and of course, it was difficult to feel anything special in this way. It just felt very heavy and I struggled terribly.

[Sir Neil]

It’s an emotion, and emotions fluctuate from time to time. Just because you’re not feeling it doesn’t mean that you have lost it. It just means that your emotions have changed again, but they can change back.

The most important thing is to keep on doing the things which lead you to feel that way about yourself, and those all start with different thoughts about yourself.

What I have found is that self-love is loving a thought about yourself. Then another. Then another. Then another and so on. It all builds up into an energy form which you feel inside of you, and which is reflected by things which happen in your outer world. What you felt was the build up of better thoughts you had been having about yourself (either conscious or unconscious). You can do this again and again. As many times as you want or need.

[Miss Hepburn]

I don't understand 'being IN love' with myself.
I like myself just fine. :) Respecting, honoring myself and being kind to myself is the best I can do.
I adore my Creator, Father God...by whatever name...within me and outside of me, tho.