Cutting psychic cords

I just wanted to write an update on how I am going. It has been over a week since I did the cord cutting session and I really do feel like a change has occurred. Sometimes with spiritual things I wonder at what point it is a load of ****, because surely a line must be drawn, but in this particular instance I feel quite certain that cords do exist and that the session I did did indeed change things.

I continue to feel less connected to him. I can honestly say now that despite perhaps some suspicions, I no longer know how he is feeling - it is on par with having "no clue", whereas before... I don't know if I actually was feeling him, but some part of me had an idea as to what emotional state he was in. Now I just have no clue (my suspicions are based on the fact that probably not much has changed in his emotional state in just over a week).

A little bit TMI, but the whole sexual urges thing has drastically lessened. It's like it's now gone back to being a non-issue in my head, apart from maybe if something comes on the TV. I am still very surprised by this, and still can't really understand why that would have been occurring then (were the urges from me, or me picking up on something from him?)

I still see little "signs" about the place that remind me of him, but they are a bit easier now to pass off and they seem to have a bit less meaning attached to them, and they also occur less frequently. I no longer feel like I am being inundated with things reminding me of him so much and wondering constantly why this is happening. Now I might see something and my response is more along the lines of "interesting... eh" and the thoughts kind of stop there.

Overall I still sometimes get emotional, but I am definitely feeling much much better. I still wonder if anything will come of it, but I kind of feel like a large part of me now has moved on. I now only want him back for the familiarity of it, and for the chance, but I would probably say that has decreased to maybe like 40%, and the majority of me is actually thinking I'd prefer someone new. This is quite new to me. I am going out tonight and am going to keep my eye open for someone. I no longer feel like there is any contract between me and him (me pledging to wait or love him or anything)... and I guess as time goes on I doubt he will change and it is a lot less worth it to me. I am a bit more back to looking for a good partner who I can laugh with, rather than hanging onto some dud. (Apologies to him - but he kind of was).

I will update again in the future, but I just feel overall much better with everything. I feel like I have for the most part regained myself, and I can tell that there is no connection anymore and no cords have tried to reattach. He also hasn't tried to contact me in any way, so I suspect he has long moved on or otherwise too ignorant/dead/unfeeling to realise that things have changed energetically. Don't know which one - don't care because it doesn't matter.