I´m begging for another chance.

deztini3 · #1 14-06-2013, 07:05 PM

Hello dear people. I come to all of you asking for help, any sort of help that could prevent the breakup of me and my beloved girlfriend. I have never felt so sure about my love for anyone before. I need this woman in my life for the rest of my life. I did make some mistakes, i did take the relationship for granted, and i have acknowledged that according to the law of Karma, i probably don´t deserve her back.

The point is that she feels as if her connection with me has been lost, and now she seems to have made the decision to block all influence from me that i try to make. I cannot influence her feelings or spirit properly because she is about 9000 kilometers away from me, and if i could, i would fly there tomorrow to help her see that our connection has not died.

I don´t know what exactly i should ask from you my fellow board members, but i was hoping that if anyone that is willing to help a human being begging for his life for another chance, i would be forever grateful for your help.

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i am simply a heartbroken man that will do anything i can possibly do to reverse the path of our relationship. Thank you all that will help me and may everything good in this world be with you.

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amylou · #2 15-06-2013, 02:16 AM

Every person has a right to free will. I wish you and her the best and hope that it works out for the highest good of you both, whatever that may be.

#3 15-06-2013, 04:23 AM

It's not what you want to hear, but you should probably let go.

You're investing all your happiness into a single person. Not only is this unhealthy, it's not fair to that person to be your emotional object.

You really need to accept that it's over and take the time to focus on yourself, or you're going to cause yourself unnecessary pain.

#4 15-06-2013, 05:18 AM

Try really communicating with her. - Openly and honestly.
Whatever you did, you should appologize to the way that she would accept.
Give everything that you have in that communication.
And let her TALK. - although you may not like what you hear.
Just let her dump her negative emotions so those negative feelings are drained out from her.
We women talk ourselves to forgiving someone.