New to gemstones need advice

[harmor]

Hi everyone, recently I have joined this forum just because of gemstones.
I'll share my story. Couple years ago my ex-gf and me broke up, and one evening i found her purple amethyst necklace which she had lost at my appartment. For some reason I didn't want to return it to her (maybe it was because we already have broken up by the time). So I decided to keep it for myself, but with a though that I will return It someday. I hanged that necklace on my wall like a decoration. After couple days I had feeling something has changed, people started to have more interest in me, there was a lot attention from girls, also I had this radiant feeling of this stone and a "stupid though" that It all was about this gem. I never believed in power of gemstones, and by that time I didn't even know there was something about them. But that inner feeling of this necklace radiating harmony and love couldn't leave me alone. So I decided to give her back this necklace, when I bring her necklace back, radiation have vanished, harmony and attention of people too. It has been 4 years since that day, and recently I've spotted this forum and lot information about gemstones and they're radiating powers.
I don't need any proof of gem's making positive changes, I just need an advice... I've read about lot gem's and spotted one called "moldavite" which does help you open extrasensory perception, my question is - Is there any other gems that could help me open that up? Since I've started to experience my extrasensory powers but they are stuck at some level of development. And If I buy couple gems will they make synergy or opposite? And if let's say I'll buy bag of 30~ gemstones will they all have positive effect on me? Or It will be chaotic combination? Sorry for my poor english, and thank you. :)

[elfasvonpa]

It can get chaotic. I wear black tourmaline and tiger's eye when going to work. If I also take emerald, the day becomes extremely hard, so many foolish works at job, i brake something etc. Well one word - chaos. If i dont take emerald everything is very smooth.

[gemfusion]

In my experience, using too many crystals at once can be chaotic, although once or twice I've managed to find the right combination where several of their energies can flow nicely together. As for suggestions, I'd suggest kyanite - I find all of its variations useful with opening extrasensory perceptions, but blue kyanite is particularly great at this.

When I work with it for an extended period of time, I also like to have black & green kyanite around. I find that they amplify and synergize well without disrupting or changing the flow of energy, as they are within the same family. Black kyanite adds a grounding, protective energy that puts me at ease and helps me focus while green kyanite is a very balancing, stabilizing stone that I find helpful when I'm having difficulty processing something I've experienced in the wake of developing my abilities.

Hope this helps!

[harmor]

Hmm I wonder If combination of Moldavite, Blue kyanite and amethyst would make a great amulet with synergy. I know that Moldavite and amethyst will work great together, but adding blue kyanite to it is another question. Considering all info collected :1 gem is good, 2 gems are great, but 3 might be too much. :?

[gemfusion]

I haven't had the pleasure of working with moldavite yet, but I've used blue kyanite and amethyst in conjunction before and had fine results. :) Personally when it comes to 3 or more, I try to make sure I'm not making a combination with potentially opposite qualities/energies. With that in mind, I would probably give moldavite/kyanite/amethyst a go, but always go with your gut!

[EvaMoon]

Hmmm.... Moldavite is a very powerful energy stone. I personally wouldn't advise it when first starting out. It might be that an amethyst/kyanite combo will be your best bet. Especially since you're already attuned to the amethyst. If you search the internet using "METAPHYSICAL MEANING OF ______ " (just fill in the name of the stone), you'll find a wealth of information. This will help you zero in on which crystal(s) you want. I agree with the others that more than 2 crystals in combination can get chaotic and you'll be disappointed with the results. If you're determined to try the Moldavite at this stage, I would say "Use in Small Doses"
Eva

[EvaMoon]

I'd like to add that you might also enjoy looking at various crystals. One of the easiest places to do this is on eBay. Search using the words "CRYSTAL SPECIMENS". You'll see TONS of beautiful crystals. Good luck.

[CrystalSong]

Too many gemstones will be chaos for you and them. It's like living in a packed auditorium - too many energies and too much 'noise'.

One can usually get by with no more than three on them at one time, but really it's best to think of them like an IV drip of a specific frequency and use them one at a time.
So maybe like your Monday Stone, your Tuesday Stone and so on - or better yet feel them each day asking 'Which one will assist me the most today?" or "Who wants to be with me today?" and choose that one for your pocket.

Moldavite is not a good starting stone, it's highly effective for some people, super weird for others and some don't feel it at all. Save it for later when you are more adapt at all this and then decide if its even the right stone for you or not. It has very specific energies from systems out side our solar system and could actually be a bad match for you.

Good starting stones for evolving your consciousness are Rose Quartz or Amethyst or Citrin. Pretty soon you might reach a state where the calcite family or Florite family really call you (this is often when we reach a point where detoxing, cleansing and healing need to happen before further evolution can occur.
Kyanite is a lovely supportive energy at any stage of evolution and does a wide range of things which make it useful for a very long time.

What many of us find is when its time to change frequency's (Stones) we'll be called/compelled into a rock shop and some rock there will call out to us so strongly we buy it in an energetic daze and then drunkenly stumble back to our car with it clutched in awe in our fist.

[harmor]

Originally Posted by CrystalSong

What many of us find is when its time to change frequency's (Stones)

I need to hear more about this. Can't I have one set of rocks forever? Will gem influence on me get weaker over time? Or why is that? My only goal is to open up my inner abilities, and if moldavite is best gem to do that, why should or would I change It for something else? Might sound stupid, I know...

[CrystalSong]

Oh course you can have them forever....well your physical lifetime at least.
You do what you feel is right for you. I was only making generalizations as a Crystologist, personal expereince and ongoing research and having spoken with many people about their experiences over time with crystals and their evolution. It need not apply to you. Do as you wish, of course. :)

Will gem influence on me get weaker over time?

Yeah, wow, that would take all day to type out an explaination. May I recommend getting any book by Judy Hall book or Love is in the Earth by Melody if you truly desire to understand the width and breadth of possibilities with using stones and crystals and why.