Twin flames & eye contact

Hi,

out of curiosity I would like to ask, is your eye contact with your twin easy or difficult? Mine is difficult. It feels too intense.

[able12]

Heaven on earth.

[Astral Jane]

we had so little of it, few face to face meetings. But the one where we did make eye contact (which normally is too intense for me w anyone, sometimes I adjust by over-adjusting, become psychically aggressive without intending to and I make it too intense for the other). But that day, it's like I was spared the anxiety when TS and I looked closely at each other- was it direct eye contact for both? not sure, there was tremendous spiritual/angelic or spirit guide presence there moderating and modulating it for us both. We both went into an altered state like a trance, but something kept us from getting too anxious, or from knowing what was going on for that matter.

Not that we could have known. It's just that in hindsight you can say, that was when time stopped or we recognized each other, etc but really I had no idea what was happening and can't even say how I would have described it later that day. The spiritual protection in the room made it all foggy like anesthesia.

Originally Posted by Astral Jane

we had so little of it, few face to face meetings. But the one where we did make eye contact (which normally is too intense for me w anyone, sometimes I adjust by over-adjusting, become psychically aggressive without intending to and I make it too intense for the other). But that day, it's like I was spared the anxiety when TS and I looked closely at each other- was it direct eye contact for both? not sure, there was tremendous spiritual/angelic or spirit guide presence there moderating and modulating it for us both. We both went into an altered state like a trance, but something kept us from getting too anxious, or from knowing what was going on for that matter.

Not that we could have known. It's just that in hindsight you can say, that was when time stopped or we recognized each other, etc but really I had no idea what was happening and can't even say how I would have described it later that day. The spiritual protection in the room made it all foggy like anesthesia.

Astral Jane, what you shared sounds very interesting. Funny thing is I usually make eye contact very easily. it usually is me who stares (without noticing it myself) at the other person and the other person first looks away. Eye contact doesn't intimidate me with anybody else except my twin. I feel so vulnerable and kind of naked infront of him that it scares me. Especially if there are other people around.

Originally Posted by Unknown11

Astral Jane, what you shared sounds very interesting. Funny thing is I usually make eye contact very easily. it usually is me who stares (without noticing it myself) at the other person and the other person first looks away. Eye contact doesn't intimidate me with anybody else except my twin. I feel so vulnerable and kind of naked infront of him that it scares me. Especially if there are other people around.

OMG, I am the same way with other people.

BUT with TS, FF we have not met in 3D and I can barely look at a pic with his eyes showing. Very rarely look at this pic. The power is unbelievable(yes vulnerable, naked, completely exposed). In fact, requested that when we meet... it is in private not at the airport and he wears sunglasses, so I can ease into it. Pretty sure I am going to faint or honestly feels more like the beginning sensations of OBE. In fact, one time we practiced meeting by talking it through and we both got so electrified that we had to take a break! And now we just work towards, being able to meet and feeling like we will be okay when the visit is over and not fall apart. BTW I am the chaser...no matter. He has no problem with looking at my eyes in the pic and in fact seems to really be comfortable with the idea in 3D.

And equally embarrassing, it took me four months before I could say his real name to him. Had to practice saying it out loud in private. Just thinking of his name or seeing it would make me swoon for the lack of a better word. And it is still special and has a physical affect on me, but now it is not so overwhelming. Sounds so romantic right! But this "relationship" is not Disneyesque at all (And now he will gloat)

Thank you so much for asking this question Unknown11. I hope the responses have been helpful to you. Just the asking was helpful to me

Originally Posted by Twitter patted

OMG, I am the same way with other people.

BUT with TS, FF we have not met in 3D and I can barely look at a pic with his eyes showing. Very rarely look at this pic. The power is unbelievable(yes vulnerable, naked, completely exposed). In fact, requested that when we meet... it is in private not at the airport and he wears sunglasses, so I can ease into it. Pretty sure I am going to faint or honestly feels more like the beginning sensations of OBE. In fact, one time we practiced meeting by talking it through and we both got so electrified that we had to take a break! And now we just work towards, being able to meet and feeling like we will be okay when the visit is over and not fall apart. BTW I am the chaser...no matter. He has no problem with looking at my eyes in the pic and in fact seems to really be comfortable with the idea in 3D.

And equally embarrassing, it took me four months before I could say his real name to him. Had to practice saying it out loud in private. Just thinking of his name or seeing it would make me swoon for the lack of a better word. And it is still special and has a physical affect on me, but now it is not so overwhelming. Sounds so romantic right! But this "relationship" is not Disneyesque at all (And now he will gloat)

Thank you so much for asking this question Unknown11. I hope the responses have been helpful to you. Just the asking was helpful to me

Glad you feel my question helped

Ahhah I can totally understand why you feel like you do when you look at his picture. I remember how it felt when I saw a picture of mine for the first time. I thought I was looking at myself. His eyes mesmerized me at once.

Also practicing your meeting sounds like a great idea. I would have loved to be able to do something like that before I met mine but I wasn't able to. So our first meeting (real meeting, I had exchanged eye contact from distance with him before) went without proper direct eye contact. I just couldn't do it.

[Rabbit heart]

It was perfect, time stoped, it was like dancing with the universe.

[aubreyiris]

It was amazing at first. Just like rabbit heart said, " time stoped, it was like dancing with the universe." That describes it perfectly. I thought I met him again in NY around 8 years later, long story, but I didn't even dare to make eye contact or talk to him. The energy was too intense, so I watched him walk away once again. sigh.

Originally Posted by aubreyiris

It was amazing at first. Just like rabbit heart said, " time stoped, it was like dancing with the universe." That describes it perfectly. I thought I met him again in NY around 8 years later, long story, but I didn't even dare to make eye contact or talk to him. The energy was too intense, so I watched him walk away once again. sigh.

I can relate to what you shared aubreyiris. My first eye contact with mine was amazing. Next time when I saw him, I couldn't make the eye contact.

[Spirit Seeker]

In my world, it was the eyes of my avatar picture that captured me about 9 months before my TF awakening. I'm not one who gives art, drawings etc much thought, but when I saw this picture in a youtube video, I had to have it. Those eyes connected with me in a way I couldn't understand. I spent a few days searching up and down the net until I found it.

Then after my awakening, I showed the picture to both a sensitive and my empath/medium friend and asked what they thought of the picture (without my telling them the story behind it). They both independently told me that is what Rhea (my TF in the spiritual realm) looks like.

Had it not been for the eyes, I probably would not have given the picture a 2nd look.