Please Help Me

sohamfan11 · #1 24-06-2016, 04:04 PM

I Live Country India ,Sohamfan is not my real name , I had done some sins in past when so society consider me Mad Eunuch , Duffer and World biggest sinner .
But I Consider My Self As Mad as i am Slightly Abnormal ,Eunuch - I am Born As a male but don't have manliness and duffer because i am neither smart nor intelligent and i consider myself as a sinner ,But i do not consider my self as World Biggest Sinner , What Should I do So that Society Would Not Consider me World Biggest Sinner ? [Forum Member Please help me] .

desert rat · #2 24-06-2016, 04:48 PM

On sin , it was invented by the church , not God . As long as the police are not looking for you , you have no problems . We punish our selvs not God , karma . On not looking manly , go work out . You can beat up any one that calls you a girl . On no being not to bright , even not to bright people can do ok .

sohamfan11 · #3 24-06-2016, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by desert rat

On sin , it was invented by the church , not God . As long as the police are not looking for you , you have no problems . We punish our selvs not God , karma . On not looking manly , go work out . You can beat up any one that calls you a girl . On no being not to bright , even not to bright people can do ok .

My dear you don't know people of my city and my enemies they are millions times stronger than me.

desert rat · #4 24-06-2016, 08:02 PM

What type of help would you want from this forum?

GlowWorm · #5 25-06-2016, 01:12 AM

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Originally Posted by desert rat

On sin , it was invented by the church , not God . As long as the police are not looking for you , you have no problems . We punish our selvs not God , karma . On not looking manly , go work out . You can beat up any one that calls you a girl . On no being not to bright , even not to bright people can do ok .

........... You are aware that India is incredibly complex with their caste systems, familial sects, etc... right?

desert rat · #6 25-06-2016, 03:08 AM

I was kidding about beating up people for saying that you were not manly . I wold say move to a part of the world where they do not use a cast system . If you cant do that , dont hang around people that use that cast system . Hear in the US if one works hard , most can have what want regardless of what family they were born in to .

Warrioress · #7 25-06-2016, 03:36 AM

Hello, intelligence and duffer is not the definition of manliness. Even if you was born a male and was intelligence, that is still not the strongest qualities about a man. I understand in some cultures, the man is the strong one, the protector, the decision makers but it also takes compassion, sincerity, and a soft hand to rule the world. I'm sorry someone has made you feel less of a man but just remember , who you are on the inside is what matters. And are you saying not being manly is your sin? That's not a sin. What is a sin? A broken rule or law of man or a higher power. Why would a higher power create you then call you a sinner? That's is a cultures ego stereotyping you. I guess I would of been put to death in your culture. I'm a 5'2 woman with a 6'5 mans attitude. Lol.

sohamfan11 · #8 25-06-2016, 06:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Warrioress

Hello, intelligence and duffer is not the definition of manliness. Even if you was born a male and was intelligence, that is still not the strongest qualities about a man. I understand in some cultures, the man is the strong one, the protector, the decision makers but it also takes compassion, sincerity, and a soft hand to rule the world. I'm sorry someone has made you feel less of a man but just remember , who you are on the inside is what matters. And are you saying not being manly is your sin? That's not a sin. What is a sin? A broken rule or law of man or a higher power. Why would a higher power create you then call you a sinner? That's is a cultures ego stereotyping you. I guess I would of been put to death in your culture. I'm a 5'2 woman with a 6'5 mans attitude. Lol.

Not being Manly is not my sin ,my sin is different .

sohamfan11 · #9 25-06-2016, 06:56 AM

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Originally Posted by desert rat

I was kidding about beating up people for saying that you were not manly . I wold say move to a part of the world where they do not use a cast system . If you cant do that , dont hang around people that use that cast system . Hear in the US if one works hard , most can have what want regardless of what family they were born in to .

You Don't Know About My enemies they may Come to any part of world also .

GlowWorm · #10 25-06-2016, 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by desert rat

I was kidding about beating up people for saying that you were not manly . I wold say move to a part of the world where they do not use a cast system . If you cant do that , dont hang around people that use that cast system . Hear in the US if one works hard , most can have what want regardless of what family they were born in to .

Please. The caste and familial systems exist all over the world. They just don't sort of "forget about it" when they leave India, they are born & bred such for generations. To some, if not most, it means more than life or death. It may not be as obvious in the US or other places as in India but if these systems didn't exist well then there wouldn't be infighting among these different caste & familial systems in other countries. To the average westerner they just see a bunch of Indians fighting & wonder what the heck... these are all the "same people"... well in reality they are not the "same people".

Some of that fighting can be extremely violent and include not just one person but many.

And not all in India can afford to move. Aside from the disgrace he'll bring to himself by fleeing, depending on what the issue is, his family will likely suffer by such actions.