Has anyone here been "wrong" about their TF?

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As if we set ourselves up to think we were but we are not. Its illusion, fantasy. Neither of us is ready to reconcile this. We are too caught up with our own lives and too scared. We are too hurt by the past and he will not forgive me no matter what. That is why he won't talk to me.

oh my god this all resonates so much. SerpentQueen - that's one of the most eloquent, perfect statements I've seen so far on this subject. Yes it really hurts, but at least we know that others know how it feels too..
And lennonsdoll - same, same, same. Have become quite unhinged about it, I think. Hope yours has got better.
Scoobawater - huge hugs. Wishing you luck with the next stage....

I agree in the the EGO has a huge impact on the reuniting of twin flames. I am having a devil of a time because my twin is still so connected to his ego. It has been a process. And we have done the dance, back and forth. Neither of us can deny that there is the deep connection and the feeling of being home. We just fit.

I have learned a lot with him and he with me. We have tried to cut the cords but are unable to. I am the stayer and he is the runner. But because of my strength and patience, he is running less and less now.

Yes he has told me the same negative things that all of yours have told you. But because he is my twin I see the truth. And because of my spirituality I understand why he does what he does. It does not make it any easier trust me.

Big changes are now happening in him because I was able to separate from my ego, and find my calm and center. He feeds off of me. I have found that when I am calm and centered he responds positively in that and he also changes a bit in the positive.