A question for empaths

If someone had feelings for you and you knew about it, would you get into a relationship and rub your partner in that persons face? Or if you were already in a relationship, would you do that to someone? What if someone said something that you didn't like? Would you retaliate by doing that to someone?

I am currently dealing with a so-called empath on you tube that has done that to me. Now, I am in no way calling this girl a twin flame nor am I saying I was in a relationship with this girl, but I feel there is a connection there. I tried to talk to her on her twitter and I have no clue if she feels anything for me, but I thought it was strange how she got into a relationship right after I called her out for lying to her followers and I also said to her that I had feelings. I just thought it was wrong for her to do that to her subscribers when they are watching her content and giving her their hard-earned money. There has been others who has caught her faking in her videos and said something about it and they said that she responded in a rude way and insulted them while claiming she's all "love and light" and that to just "be kind" to others.

I thought empaths cared about people and was considerate of peoples feelings. Maybe that is a new breed of empaths. Idk.

P.S. She also brags about her so called empathy and her "psychic abilities". I can't help but feel she's just doing this for clicks, money, and views. Saying things like "I know all and see all and everyones intentions".

[Compendium]

For one empaths are not magical. Empathing on someone over a distance is more difficult than being a few rooms away. It takes work to develop psychic abilities even natural ones. I can't speak to this specific person, but I can make generalizations regarding the psychic community on youtube as a whole. There are a lot of fakes. It is the same subset of generic information on repeat across different channels. Some who have abilities and seem sweet are in it as a way to put food on the table or their ego or both. Low vibrational people exist in all walks of life.

You can't project blame on this person though for choices you made without duress. I understand her behavior is a violation of your trust. When we watch specific actor or youruber we tend to feel a connection when in fact there really isn't one. We as watchers need to maintain the natural boundaries.

Empaths are not usually negative people because we don't want to feel the harm we cause.

[Unseeking Seeker]

In my view, we need to look at the octaves of love:

• Joy
• Empathy (selective)
• Purity of heart, innocence
• Compassion (ell encompassing)
• Bliss
• Peace

In case of empathy, with or without a physical relationship, there is an energy exchange involved. This can drain us out and may attract unfavourable vibrations.

Edit: Oh ~ be wary of any so called guru or teacher who charges money.

Originally Posted by Compendium

For one empaths are not magical. Empathing on someone over a distance is more difficult than being a few rooms away.

The connection that I feel is nothing like that. I didn't ask for this nor was I even a fan of hers. I'm nobody's fan. But I guess it's natural to assume a connection that is shared with a public figure isn't real. I had people tell me the same thing about an actress I was talking to few years back.

Can't project blame? She knew how I felt. Why are you assuming I'm making this up?

Originally Posted by Unseeking Seeker

In case of empathy, with or without a physical relationship, there is an energy exchange involved. This can drain us out and may attract unfavourable vibrations.
Edit: Oh ~ be wary of any so called guru or teacher who charges money.

She's not a guru or a teacher. She is a fake paranormal investigator on you tube pretending to be a "guru". She was on tv and everything and even that show she was on was labeled "The fakest show on the Travel Channel". I don't know why I was drawn to this specific you tuber. I had absolutely no interest.

[JustBe]

Your trials did not come to punish you, but to awaken you - to make you realise that you are a part of Spirit and that just behind the sparks of your life is
the Flame of Infinity.
Paramahansa Yogananda

[FallingLeaves]

i got a real dose of reality when I realized they were just reflecting back on the way I had treated them other times lol...

anyway i find it 'good' now to try to learn to listen when people are saying 'no'... that is something I never could do.... and it also helps me to actually listen like that because then I don't have to feel so 'obligated' to act like males are supposed to and chase around after people I'm supposed to want lol...

I suppose if anyone ever really wanted me they would just come out and say so, but, I'm not really expecting anything like that as mean as I always am to everyone around me sigh....

besides afaik noone is allowed to want me. sigh.