How do you make yourself ready for possible advancement with a SC ??

veronicax · #1 07-10-2012, 01:42 AM

Most people on here know my situation but If not it's fairly simple. Me and my SC are very close but he is married. We bonded and got close only a couple months after he tied the not and have been for almost 2 years now. Although in my head even though I never push or ask him to leave, of course I wish he would and OF course end up with me !! I do not believe this marriage is right for him but also believe he has to cycle through it one his own time most likely to learn some type of lesson. Lately and other times on and off, it seem like their relationship might be on edge. So why then, do I get worried and think Oh no !! I worry that I am not ready but their would really be no obvious reason why not. I guess I just feel that the bond/relationship is so intense and consuming that it freaks me out. Anyone have an insight on this ??

#2 07-10-2012, 02:58 PM

My best advise is to relax and breathe, lolol!
Whatever happens will happen in its own time and own way....try not to have any expectations (those only get us into trouble...)

Jatd · #3 07-10-2012, 03:32 PM

I agree, forcing won't work.. let things fall where they may. Amazing how things unfold if you let them.

Kiran · #4 07-10-2012, 06:51 PM

Wait.... wait... wait... and let things flow in their own rhythm.

#5 07-10-2012, 06:55 PM

I'll echo what they said......wait, and work on loving yourself first!

veronicax · #6 08-10-2012, 09:04 PM

I am definitely NOT forcing anything and never had. ! That's not what this post was about. I never force anything and have always gone with the flow in my entire life.

#7 09-10-2012, 01:10 AM

The only way for anyone to make themselves 'ready' in this business is to find and unite with their own soul - because that's where all the answers are... Then we will understand what this Twin stuff is all about, and the physical limitations or obstacles like marriage etc... will no longer exist.

#8 09-10-2012, 10:03 PM

Just sit back and let the universe do its job veronicax :-)

I have thought the same thing in my situation too and let me tell you, its a stressful thought! So I've stopped trying to figure out when and how we'd get together and just left it up to the universe. Que sera sera I think is the saying :-)

Kiwigirl11 · #9 09-10-2012, 10:06 PM

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Just sit back and let the universe do its job veronicax :-)

I have thought the same thing in my situation too and let me tell you, its a stressful thought! So I've stopped trying to figure out when and how we'd get together and just left it up to the universe. Que sera sera I think is the saying :-)

I agree, thats exactly what i'm doing now ,its amazing how easier it gets when you let go of any expectations and just go with the flow :)

veronicax · #10 09-10-2012, 11:26 PM

I don't have expectations just hopes

. But I would feel awful if the time came and for some reason I wasn't prepared ..