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09-12-2015, 02:50 AM
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Join Date: Jan 2015
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Why does a person fall apart once a lightworker leaves them?
Just curious. I've been observing a friend (a lightworker). People are attracted to her like a moth to a flame especially ones who need helping the most. She's with them for awhile then their lives seem to be better because she's around but the moment it's time for her to go and help another person, these people's lives seem to fall apart. Why is that? Isn't it that when lightworkers come to our lives, they help light up our lives and when it's time for them to go then we are never left the same and for most, these lightworkers have helped raise our vibration to some level but for others it happens the other way around? I just noticed this happen to a person this lightworker was helping, once the lightworker left, this person went back to his old habits and ways and even seems to be a lost cause now.
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09-12-2015, 03:06 AM
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Master
Join Date: Dec 2015
Posts: 1,500
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If the things that tie the person to those habits has not been released then that person will dwell back into them until they are resolved... if ever. It depends on quite a lot of stuff to be honest
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09-12-2015, 06:24 AM
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Master
Join Date: May 2012
Location: Austin TX USA
Posts: 2,461
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Think about this in a more conventional scenario. The lightworker finds people that are unhealthy because they don't have money to by proper food. He(she) brings them good food and their health improves. Then upon the lightworker leaving the situation reverts (people return to poor health) because the fundamental cause (lack of money) was not resolved. So yes, in a sense the lightworker 'fixed' the person's health. But the real (root) cause of bad health was not addressed, it returns once they step out of the picture.
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12-01-2016, 01:38 AM
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Seeker
Join Date: Jan 2016
Posts: 35
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Quote:
Originally Posted by wstein
Think about this in a more conventional scenario. The lightworker finds people that are unhealthy because they don't have money to by proper food. He(she) brings them good food and their health improves. Then upon the lightworker leaving the situation reverts (people return to poor health) because the fundamental cause (lack of money) was not resolved. So yes, in a sense the lightworker 'fixed' the person's health. But the real (root) cause of bad health was not addressed, it returns once they step out of the picture.
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My thoughts exactly
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12-01-2016, 03:04 PM
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Guide
Join Date: Nov 2015
Posts: 715
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My guess is codependency. Im not a light worker, but I am always the one people go to for help, whether its advice, money or some other kind of help. Ive learned the best help we can do is just listen. I have literally wrote out plans for some of my family members, countless hours of talking, literally giving money, babysat, clothes, ect & place to stay.... giving them rides, helping them get a place to live & thinking this would help. They seem to get it, (this sometimes would go on for years) but they weren't in it to win it. You know, they were around to feel good. Someone to make them feel safe & to listen to their problems. As soon as they were out of sight, they were back to their old ways. You can't help someone who doesn't want to help themselves. Infact, if they are too far down the wrong path, they will get mad the first time you refuse to give them what they want...and tell everyone that all the help you gave them, they gave to you instead....even if they have no job, no car & are living on the streets. The best you can do is let them learn the hard way....because most often, they have subconsciously chose to live the way they do & with the problems they do. They dont really want to change or dont know how....they are set in their ways.
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09-12-2015, 10:54 AM
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Master
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Melbourne
Posts: 3,356
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It is very simple, a so called light worker is not meant to fix anyone, perhaps show someone how and what they can do. It is then up to everyone to do it.
There are no short cuts, every one has to do their own work.
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12-05-2017, 02:51 AM
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Pathfinder
Join Date: May 2017
Posts: 50
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true , wee need to fix our self , no short cuts
Know yourself , meditate and find the answer , no money involved
google pyramidmeditation, its free meditation and it is focusing on Breath Energy
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09-12-2015, 11:09 AM
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Master
Join Date: Oct 2010
Location: Australia
Posts: 22,132
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Quote:
Originally Posted by GalTrav
Just curious. I've been observing a friend (a lightworker). People are attracted to her like a moth to a flame especially ones who need helping the most. She's with them for awhile then their lives seem to be better because she's around but the moment it's time for her to go and help another person, these people's lives seem to fall apart. Why is that? Isn't it that when lightworkers come to our lives, they help light up our lives and when it's time for them to go then we are never left the same and for most, these lightworkers have helped raise our vibration to some level but for others it happens the other way around? I just noticed this happen to a person this lightworker was helping, once the lightworker left, this person went back to his old habits and ways and even seems to be a lost cause now.
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Yea - we have to be very cautious about reliance.
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09-12-2015, 01:07 PM
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Master
Join Date: Dec 2011
Posts: 1,116
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Lightworkers are not a crutch, they put people back on the path and the rest is up to them. I have had charges that started to depend too much on me, and while I still remain in contact, I am hands off as they need to learn their lessons.
It's like going to the ER, then getting discharged. The rest is up to the person and they can't keep going back to the ER with the same problem.
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10-12-2015, 03:04 PM
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Pathfinder
Join Date: Jan 2015
Posts: 64
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Quote:
Originally Posted by GalTrav
Just curious. I've been observing a friend (a lightworker). People are attracted to her like a moth to a flame especially ones who need helping the most. She's with them for awhile then their lives seem to be better because she's around but the moment it's time for her to go and help another person, these people's lives seem to fall apart. Why is that? Isn't it that when lightworkers come to our lives, they help light up our lives and when it's time for them to go then we are never left the same and for most, these lightworkers have helped raise our vibration to some level but for others it happens the other way around? I just noticed this happen to a person this lightworker was helping, once the lightworker left, this person went back to his old habits and ways and even seems to be a lost cause now.
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I felt like that when lightworkers helped me, but I was able to get it together when I accepted that I could not depend on them. It has nothing to do with neing the lightworkers fault, it's not. People often find it hard to become self-reliant when someone is helpping them alot. and IMO this is especially true for men, men need women so badly.
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