Casual comments clothes

[Izz]

My partner is my soulmate, as I know he promoted my growth. And with any growth certain triggers arise

He on occasions had done this thing that upset me. When i express about something serious, he albeit listening would make some casual comment about what I wear. I get annoyed and upset by this and let him know. To which he would be apologetic and reassure, but then he did it again today

Maybe for some, it's not a big deal. But for me it bothers me and I expressed that discomfort. He usually comments favorably on my appearance but still those casual comments are irritating. Does anyone else go through this?

Again he apologized, but I can't help feeling upset about it

[lostsoul13]

My choice of clothes are joggers and T-shirt I can’t fail unless going to a meeting- but can empathise… I never had that problem with my twin flame, it probably stems from jealousy ( but he can’t pin point it as the culprit right away)

Ware what you want how you want my soulmate has some wacky cloth sense- but it suits her estrangement.. which is a perk it’s part of her flamboyant nature that embraces the hippie..

Apart from that I love her embracing

[Izz]

I think it's sorted now and he apologized

I truly appreciate that he's warm and accountable

Hi well I understand why you react, he don't listen, first of all to what you have to say and interrupt, and then make what I am assuming is a negative comment on your clothes, so then you got 2 insults at once. Glad you guys sorted it out :)

[Izz]

Yes, to his credit he shows a lot of love for my appearance including verbally but I was bothered by the casual comments regarding certain outfits. He apologized and attempted to soothe

Thanks, asearcher, for understanding

Sure thing, you're welcome. That's wonderful he does that :)