Hello SF Community

[Lucyan28]

Originally Posted by Ivy

Yes, I'm with you on that. I don't believe in it being a karmic cycle, it's simply people reacting.

I don't know if you've heard of the drama triangle (basically, in any drama there is a victim, a hero/saviour and a 'bad' guy). In self-development, they are archetypes that can be found within all of us. And with balanced interpretation they can be applied to any situation.

Ivy basically we all are exposed to experience any role of the triangle, and taking a role in the play.

I would add one more side to the triangle: the audience.

A lot of times and situations we only can see the things and we became the audience, being an observer can gather a great amount of knowledge as well.

[Lucyan28]

Originally Posted by Greenslade

I've spent a few years in the against child abuse arena and it seems to be more about the person rather than the circumstances, while there are those that carry on the cycle of abuse there are also those that break the cycle. Some victims declare themselves survivors only to become victims of their own mentality or the abuse manifests in a very different way, it's quite a complex subject.

Hi Greenslade, here is precisely when the healing process begins, I think sometimes it takes centuries to heal a deep psychic wound, but at the end of the day when you are fully healed you can help people with the same wounds.

Originally Posted by Lucyan28

Ivy basically we all are exposed to experience any role of the triangle, and taking a role in the play.

I would add one more side to the triangle: the audience.

A lot of times and situations we only can see the things and we became the audience, being an observer can gather a great amount of knowledge as well.

But in drama, the audience is equally involved in the triangle, through their interpretation of the language of archetypes. The very reason playwrights use this triangle is because that language is embedded in the unconscious.

In development, being the audience is not a separate being, it is simply to observe these archetypes within our selves and life.