I Think I May Be Relapsing!!

[Saggi]

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Basically, I've worked with overcoming Co-dependency and I feel I may be on the verge of relapsing.

My partner (of 9 months) gives me his problems (almost daily) and I offer advice and sometimes I get annoyed if he doesn't take it and he keeps moaning.

I am consumed with guilty feelings about this at the moment, mainly because of the anger. It's my frustration that is causing me to feel angry, yet if he wasn't giving me his problems I wouldn't be feeling this!!

It took me a long time to consider myself and a part of me feels I may lose that!
I've tried just listening, sometimes that can wind me up too, because it's continous and repetetive!

I take time out of the relationship on my say so regularly, this is pointed out, yet I continue to do so.

Sometimes I feel totally drained!

Sorry to offload like this

Love and hugs

Jo

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