I DONT BELIEVE IN TWIN FLAMES ..

[Smiler]

Hi Guys ~ I know we each have our belief systems ..and I wanted to share something..Spiritual connections ..regardless of what title are ...connections.

I know an extensive amount from experience and it makes the twin Flame list look short IMO. 20 years nearly has passed..as I have found a love I did not know existed ..Inside me.

For all those doing a journey .. Process your feelings ..look within.. and don't assume the other is a runner for .. he/she may be a Misogynist.. sociopath or simply using you. * harsh words but worth looking at.


How do you know ..whether at that precise point you met TF .. That you were already opening to your spiritual path ..The TF did not cause it ..simply you were ready.


Think about how many women ..seek a TF verses how many men.

Think about your childhood .. your parents ..role models that created the emotional environment in which you may emotionally associate love.


Think about ..is the struggle not with the twin ..but rather within yourself?


I believe "TF"'s are Not One soul ..as each person is an individual ...and each soul is unique and here to fulfill their life path complete.

The key words IMO again ..is know thy self ( not as easy as it sounds ..but worth it). And one must Love oneself before they can truly love another.


I am posting this as ..I worry a tad about the craze on TF's .,,being disrespected but another ..is not them being a runner.

Your worth more than that.. Learn from the energy that is opening in you ..for YOU..and Look at conditioned thought patterns.

It's a tough journey ...But worth it ~ I wish you all well.


( note *oh there are many False twin web links .. with listings ..interesting.)

Tell yourself ..*Your Lovely.*.every day ..regardless.


Love is Love ..as It is fabulous ..in all forms .

Blessings

[Teal]

Well said. I think what you said is very true. I added it to my beliefs. No matter the situation now. Our futures selves will be all the better in growth and stronger because of this experience.

[Psy-n-I]

Originally Posted by Smiler

Hi Guys ~ I know we each have our belief systems ..and I wanted to share something..Spiritual connections ..regardless of what title are ...connections.

I know an extensive amount from experience and it makes the twin Flame list look short IMO. 20 years nearly has passed..as I have found a love I did not know existed ..Inside me.

For all those doing a journey .. Process your feelings ..look within.. and don't assume the other is a runner for .. he/she may be a Misogynist.. sociopath or simply using you. * harsh words but worth looking at.


How do you know ..whether at that precise point you met TF .. That you were already opening to your spiritual path ..The TF did not cause it ..simply you were ready.


Think about how many women ..seek a TF verses how many men.

Think about your childhood .. your parents ..role models that created the emotional environment in which you may emotionally associate love.


Think about ..is the struggle not with the twin ..but rather within yourself?


I believe "TF"'s are Not One soul ..as each person is an individual ...and each soul is unique and here to fulfill their life path complete.

The key words IMO again ..is know thy self ( not as easy as it sounds ..but worth it). And one must Love oneself before they can truly love another.


I am posting this as ..I worry a tad about the craze on TF's .,,being disrespected but another ..is not them being a runner.

Your worth more than that.. Learn from the energy that is opening in you ..for YOU..and Look at conditioned thought patterns.

It's a tough journey ...But worth it ~ I wish you all well.


( note *oh there are many False twin web links .. with listings ..interesting.)

Tell yourself ..*Your Lovely.*.every day ..regardless.


Love is Love ..as It is fabulous ..in all forms .

Blessings



You've been hurt

You've been hurt

[Smiler]

Hi Tealtwist ~ quote: Our futures selves will be all the better in growth and stronger because of this experience.

I agree .. its the individual who chooses to look ..at their own anger ..rejection..patience..virtue..humbleness.. and endless list ..the reasons wy etc ..inner reflection ..a process that takes time...this individual grows ..for he/she wants too.

Some choose Not too " look within and be accountable for what they say or do" . Yet the fad for This is my Twin Flame ..He/She is not ready? And this endless wait ... Its rather like a donkey with a carrot in front of it .

That is sad really. .

.So on a great note .. who is on this path ..IMO ..Is awake them self. And maybe just maybe ..might chose to learn their own thought patterns and containing their own energy ...so it is not scattered .

Live Life ..be all you can be.

Blessings :)

[Smiler]

LOL I doubled up a thought on that page Psy-n-1..and I responded to me lol thinking it was you ..haaaaa


Oh I love bloopers

:) ..not really but seriously chose laughter lol

[Riboflavin]

Smiler it's a nice thought but the twin flame idea is never gonna go away. People like the idea way too much. I mean really what's not to like? A perfect love and sex that is exactly everything you need and you are everything that person needs and it's special and perfect just for the two of you. By just being together you are complete and as long as you have that everything will always be ok and you will be happy forever.

Even I want in on that action!

[Psy-n-I]

Originally Posted by Riboflavin

Smiler it's a nice thought but the twin flame idea is never gonna go away. People like the idea way too much. I mean really what's not to like? A perfect love and sex that is exactly everything you need and you are everything that person needs and it's special and perfect just for the two of you. By just being together you are complete and as long as you have that everything will always be ok and you will be happy forever.

Even I want in on that action!

Don't speak if you haven't experienced

[aubreyiris]

Originally Posted by Riboflavin

Smiler it's a nice thought but the twin flame idea is never gonna go away. People like the idea way too much. I mean really what's not to like? A perfect love and sex that is exactly everything you need and you are everything that person needs and it's special and perfect just for the two of you. By just being together you are complete and as long as you have that everything will always be ok and you will be happy forever.

Even I want in on that action!

Ha ha! If only it was like that. Trust me, I've been in love several times and the other relationships were way easier, more romantic and more satisfying than the TF relationship. It's more like you taste a moment of perfect bliss and oneness, than everything you've always tried to hide from the world, your hopes, fears, anger and troubles are brought to light. You ego is shattered into a million pieces, everything that you thought you believed in is shattered and you are left wondering what the hell hit you. Years and years later after finally doing the healing you need to do, you realize that was the point of the whole thing, to open your eyes and lead you on a path to healing. All this time you haven't even seen your TF, but you know that you have both done an enormous amount of healing, which was sparked by that initial mystical meeting. Romance isn't necessarily even part of it. This is not romantic and blissful, it is painful, raw and very, very real.

[aubreyiris]

Originally Posted by aubreyiris

Ha ha! If only it was like that. Trust me, I've been in love several times and the other relationships were way easier, more romantic and more satisfying than the TF relationship. It's more like you taste a moment of perfect bliss and oneness, than everything you've always tried to hide from the world, your hopes, fears, anger and troubles are brought to light. You ego is shattered into a million pieces, everything that you thought you believed in is shattered and you are left wondering what the hell hit you. Years and years later after finally doing the healing you need to do, you realize that was the point of the whole thing, to open your eyes and lead you on a path to healing. All this time you haven't even seen your TF, but you know that you have both done an enormous amount of healing, which was sparked by that initial mystical meeting. Romance isn't necessarily even part of it. This is not romantic and blissful, it is painful, raw and very, very real.

In fact I've sometimes wished I'd never met my TF. I used to wonder if it was a cruel joke or something.

Originally Posted by aubreyiris

In fact I've sometimes wished I'd never met my TF. I used to wonder if it was a cruel joke or something.

Same here. It has not been the perfect match, the " they lived happily ever after" it has been tons of healing and self work and same for him... And same for my other soul connections. Perfect relationship ? Hardly.... At least not while we are healing.

I also believe we share a higher self with all our connections. And there may be one who is closer to you who might have made a pact or agreement for a more intense union. All my soulmates are similar to each other a lot. And to me. The one I call TF is the closest to me in similarities, syncs, etc. This is why I call him TF but he might be my closest soulmate or the man I made an agreement with to be closer.

I also try to avoid labels. I just use the TF term to make it easy to understand.

A year ago I started a similar thread to this one in another forum. Debate is what makes things interesting. I have no problem to read all sorts of opinions, and I have also met people severely obsessed with the TF idea to an unhealthy degree and missing all the spiritual point.

So yes.... There are some dangers in thinking we HAVE to be with a person and not have free will, but I do believe in agreements and that probably we do have an agreement of greater intensity with a particular soulmate.