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Originally Posted by olhosdeamendoa
I'm not using any relationships to make anything work better for me... I was talking about the normal dynamics between people. I help him evolve as much as he helps me, naturally.
"So are you saying , for example, classifying your classmate as your friend helps you develop more friendship with him or her or something like that?"
Yes, absolutely. Although I don't believe that labels (or anything) is set-in-stone, I do love labels. They help me navigate through relationships and understand the dynamics better.
I don't understand why people are so affraid of labels or labeling something. I love it, makes me make more sense of the dynamics in this 3D world.
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Then why does he need to be your TF in order for both of you to evolve?
SM(and non-SM people) are capable of that, too. Is it just a matter of intensity/level to you?
It's not about being afraid of labeling, while being able to serve its purpose to a certain extent, some of us are just pointing out the drawbacks of it which many people are not aware of.
I personally don't label people in order to avoid being judgmental and for the sake of opening up myself for others. We're just different here. Let's just settle on that.
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