Dark love

annabelle239 · #1 03-10-2015, 06:29 AM

Have you or have you ever had someone like you so much or even love you that they do unkind things to you? I know technically that's not "love." But,i mean someone who felt pained by you for some reason or liked you so much,they did unkind things? What were those things? It would be nice if things were simple,and direct,and black and white but it seems sometimes things are more complex. Have you ever had someone get revenge on you because they felt rejected by you such as sabotaging a future job opportunity for you? Have you ever done that? Have you ever gossiped about someone and said bad things about them because you felt angry at them because you felt they rejected you(even if they didn't actually)? Or,cut them out of your life because you liked them so much but felt you couldn't have them and that it was just too difficult and hurt too much to even know what was going on with them? I am really curious about the true nature of the darker side of when someone likes someone and the pain that goes with that,sometimes. Have you ever treated someone worse then others,even though you liked them more then everyone else? Or,tell someone else not to go out with you and say bad things about you so they'd be deterred from the idea(even if the person didn't listen,though)?

Eyeland · #2 03-10-2015, 06:53 AM

Dark Love exists, and it is the balanced counterpart of love as most mean it. Another example of Yin and Yang, Light and Darkness complementing each other. It is love nevertheless but hard for most to fathom this, as most as obsessed with the "light" aspect.
The circumstances you mentioned, i ahev experienced almost every one of them. Only because it was meant for my Soul to know both aspects of love. A necessary step for spiritual evolution.

annabelle239 · #3 03-10-2015, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Eyeland

Dark Love exists, and it is the balanced counterpart of love as most mean it. Another example of Yin and Yang, Light and Darkness complementing each other. It is love nevertheless but hard for most to fathom this, as most as obsessed with the "light" aspect.
The circumstances you mentioned, i ahev experienced almost every one of them. Only because it was meant for my Soul to know both aspects of love. A necessary step for spiritual evolution.

Thank you. This was helpful.

#4 03-10-2015, 11:39 AM

That "love" is actually a need to control dressed up to look like romantic love...

Howla Dark · #5 03-10-2015, 12:01 PM

This isn't love, annabelle. Is someone treating you like this?

annabelle239 · #6 03-10-2015, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Howla Dark

This isn't love, annabelle. Is someone treating you like this?

I've had several treat me like this.

(im)perfectdream1794 · #7 07-10-2015, 05:23 PM

If people do dress up a need for control as romantic love, are they sociopaths? Or does not everyone that does this realize what they are doing? I'm sorry you have experienced this dark love, Annabelle.

Electric_Dreams · #8 09-10-2015, 09:02 PM

Some people dont feel worthy of love and others are so scared of getting hurt if they give into love.
The ones afraid of getting hurt can lash out and do nasty things to someone they think they love, and it tends to be more aggressive than the ones who feel undeserving. Its a way of protecting themselves,
The ones who feel unworthy to be loved tend to be more subtle with the unkindness as they dont really want to hurt you, they just want to put you off loving them, feeling that its in your best interest to not want to be with them.