How to help someone who is afraid?

[WhiteWarrior]

Death loses a lot of its sting once you realise that dying is not the end.

Originally Posted by WhiteWarrior

Death loses a lot of its sting once you realise that dying is not the end.

This is an interesting point of view WW.
Where do we go?

thanks for sharing

Originally Posted by Illumine

Sorry that I didn't exactly know where to put this

I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions on how I could help my mum. She is terribly afraid of death and dying, will cry about it for hours as soon as it's mentioned. One of our friend's lost their dog recently and I designed and printed the Rainbow Bridge to cheer her a little and it seemed to make my mum feel a bit more contented but she worries so much about it still. It gets to the point where she worries about it constantly and I don't know what I can say to her about it. This fear of death kind of leads me onto the other aspect of what my mum is afraid of..

she is a natural clairvoyant, but is terribly afraid of it. She told me recently that every night she just gets hundreds of images pop into her head and she tries to ignore them (she is afraid of it all) but it doesn't stop. She said she's had this as long as she can remember and I think it contributes to her problems sleeping because she just sees things all night long. She has had deceased relatives speak to her and she's seen them numerous times but anytime that she does, she ends up crying and is terrified. I have tried explaining that they won't hurt her and that she can ask anyone to leave if she doesn't want their presence but I don't know if the thought is really helping her much.

I really do worry about her, it's not good for her to be this afraid. Is there anything I can say or do that would help her do you think?

You can tell her for example that fear is OK it is normal but there is nothing to fear.. It helps a lot.

3d

Originally Posted by WhiteWarrior

Death loses a lot of its sting once you realise that dying is not the end.

My greatest lesson....to surrender fully.......and live fully.