Hiya Kamal
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Originally Posted by Kamal
Between forgiveness or suppression of emotion
Between true selflessness or ego
Between charity or the desire to increase ones self worth (ego)
Between accepting and letting go or ignoring (or covering up with lies)
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What came to me as I read these is that the first things (forgiveness, true selflessness, charity and accepting & letting go) will not "come back" at you. Once done, they're done. Forgotten and moved on.
However the second things (suppression of emotion, ego, increase ones self-worth and ignoring) will come back and bite you on the bum.
Suppression of emotion - the emotion will simply find another outlet as it needs to be released.
Ego ego schmego - loves attention and "me, me, me!" It will remind you of how wonderful it was, how selfless and charitable, and encourage you to go look at it in the mirror and stroke it.
Ignoring (covering up with lies) - covering up = suppression again. Guess what? The suppression will find another outlet......
Personally, I haven't got a problem with ego as such. I appreciate it's a part of human existance. However, I do try and keep mine on a leash. It occasionally slips the leash and runs off barking at everything...but it's a work-in-progress.
Squatch