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17-07-2016, 04:25 AM
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Originally Posted by wraithklewn
honestly.. id rather sever the connection and be free from her and forget all this and her completely. i dont know why i cant do that..its not right. why do i have to be stuck in purgatory for the rest of my life knowing this situation will not ever improve?
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Hey there ...It's so totally not up to me, and with all due respect, but I don't think it would be good for her if you did that. You might be one of the only truly positive influences in her life which she has ever known...also, anything which you said at the time might totally change her life someday. Sometimes things have a way of coming back around...
Also, you don't know that it's not going to improve. And it depends on how you define 'improvement'. Is she just a dunce or something? I highly doubt it...
I know I'm at risk making you angry with posting this, and I have no plans to continue bothering you with anymore feedback, from here on out. It's not my place. Peace my friend... |
17-07-2016, 05:04 AM
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Hey there ...It's so totally not up to me, and with all due respect, but I don't think it would be good for her if you did that. You might be one of the only truly positive influences in her life which she has ever known...also, anything which you said at the time might totally change her life someday. Sometimes things have a way of coming back around...
Also, you don't know that it's not going to improve. And it depends on how you define 'improvement'. Is she just a dunce or something? I highly doubt it...
I know I'm at risk making you angry with posting this, and I have no plans to continue bothering you with anymore feedback, from here on out. It's not my place. Peace my friend...
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dont you dare pull a runner on me here :P |
17-07-2016, 05:06 AM
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dont you dare pull a runner on me here :P
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17-07-2016, 05:10 AM
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Of course i do. I dont put the N in INTJ for nothing here. Besides.. im gifted so that means your in trouble. |
17-07-2016, 05:23 AM
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Of course i do. I dont put the N in INTJ for nothing here. Besides.. im gifted so that means your in trouble.
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That's nice I like gifts, especially jewelry, antiques and fine food and wine so don't forget to include those...
Btw my Twin has some rather special 'gifts' of his own and he's been known to be very giving with those around me before so I'm sure we'll want to invite him to the party...I'd really hate for him to be left out of the game. Not that he's ever not shown up before, mind you. When it actually matters, haha.  |
17-07-2016, 05:38 AM
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That's nice I like gifts, especially jewelry, antiques and fine food and wine so don't forget to include those...
Btw my Twin has some rather special 'gifts' of his own and he's been known to be very giving with those around me before so I'm sure we'll want to invite him to the party...I'd really hate for him to be left out of the game. Not that he's ever not shown up before, mind you. When it actually matters, haha. |
oh.. really? huh just all the stuff that can be potentially expensive. :P i suppose a wine you like is RED right? hmm i sense some tf competition here |
17-07-2016, 07:14 AM
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There is a guy on Facebook Mateo Sol his page is Lonerwolf, often posts good TF articles.
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17-07-2016, 09:16 AM
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Originally Posted by Sister Moon
Hey there ...It's so totally not up to me, and with all due respect, but I don't think it would be good for her if you did that. You might be one of the only truly positive influences in her life which she has ever known...also, anything which you said at the time might totally change her life someday. Sometimes things have a way of coming back around...
Also, you don't know that it's not going to improve. And it depends on how you define 'improvement'. Is she just a dunce or something? I highly doubt it...
I know I'm at risk making you angry with posting this, and I have no plans to continue bothering you with anymore feedback, from here on out. It's not my place. Peace my friend...
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I'm curious as to why you think it would not be good for her? it's true i was the only positive influence in her life but thats the past now.. shes gone and she made her choice to betray me and go with abuse again. |
17-07-2016, 09:17 AM
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There is a guy on Facebook Mateo Sol his page is Lonerwolf, often posts good TF articles.
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Thanks ill have to check that out in the near future. |
17-07-2016, 05:44 PM
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I'm curious as to why you think it would not be good for her? it's true i was the only positive influence in her life but thats the past now.. shes gone and she made her choice to betray me and go with abuse again.
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Because it's a soul connection. You just think it's in the past. You're affecting her all the time whether you know it or not. Energetically speaking. If you cut it, it might be the worst thing in the world to ever happen to her. It doesn't matter if she's fully conscious of your energy or not, in that perspective. I really did have a phenomenally effective vid on cutting, and my compatriot won't let me have it now. The universe doesn't want you to have it.
I think you're selling yourself short. Do you really think that all of your understanding and excellence were for nothing? You were the thing the universe sent. There is no stopping your energy when it comes to her. See reason, man. Maybe you were all the universe had at the time. I know what she did sucks but that doesn't change the fact that you don't suck.
Think about what's really best for her...you know it's not what she's doing now...
Notice I didn't say...do you care about what's really best for her anymore, because you're angry...
You're the strength...
I would encourage you to love her enough to forgive her, generally speaking...it doesn't mean you ever have to have a relationship with her, ever if you don't want to...it doesn't mean you have to forgive her enough to be in a relationship with her again, change your standards, or ever take her back...you can put it behind you yes in the past in that perspective in your life but you can't throw out the good that's already been done.
Last edited by Ciona : 17-07-2016 at 07:23 PM.
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