I Met My Soulmate <3

I have not considered meditation, thank you fennel

[Andromeda27]

I do apologize if I am coming off as insincere. That is not my intention. I understand that you felt a connection with this person, but I think you will end up hurting yourself by making it into something bigger than what it is. What it is, is a first date without further contact. You will meet many people throughout life that touch you in a special way, and then they move along onto a different path.

How do you let go? You thank the universe for the chance to meet this person and the lessons they will bring, and open yourself up to the next adventure. Part of that letting go is realizing that you will likely not see this person again, and that's ok! There are still so many amazing people out there that you are meant to meet, so keep searching and let them come to you!

[MOLA]

The first and most important rule of love is not to expect anything.

Having said that, I can't possibly understand how you are feeling towards this person but I can give you a few advice from a guys' perspective (or at least my own as a guy)

If I were to have felt a connection with a woman after our first date, I would naturally be the one with the initiative to contact her in hopes for a second date. I realize that everyone is different but this is generally the case. After a few dates, I would then open up to her about any personal demons that I am facing.

A personal space here and there isn't a problem but when there has been considerable time between contact just because he is facing a problem and isn't willing to open up to you then maybe, just maybe, what you're feeling isn't love but hope. You're hoping and expecting for too much and you misinterpret that as love.

I'm sorry if I have said anything that might have offended you but many things imply love but isn't love itself.

I hope everything works out for you both.

[Awakened Queen]

I send this to everybody, because I love it so much. I hope it brings you peace.

http://zenhabits.net/zen-attachment/

Focus on your life and everything in it, and if he calls you he does, and if he doesn't, understand that he wasn't part of your Divine plan.

I appreciate your words guys. I've sent him a message not too long ago, it was a mixed letter, enclosed was thank you, memories and feelings.

I decided to write to him as I just don't get non-verbal queues by not contacting me in a couple weeks, does it mean he's busy or does it mean he wishes to let go?

Regardless the message has been sent, its up to the universe, divine order and of course the guy I contacted as well and I'll remain in positive thinking till the reply.

Many thank you's.

[Ninjajms]

HC-I have had the same experience when I was younger-things did not work out the way I wanted them too-but I realized a few things that helped me-I, like you felt this incredible connection after our rescheduled first date-here is what I realized-this guy who I felt this connection was experiencing a sample of what the real thing would feel like-so the saying if you got there once, you can get there again-I understood-

I am not sure what your outcome will be-but know this-if it doesn't pan out-this guy was in a way the runner up to the real thing=which in my experience was bigger and better!!

The other thing I learned about my experience-although it was brief-was that I knew I wanted to be with someone who wanted to be with me as much as I they-I realized anything short of that and I would be settling.....Anyway, your original post asked for experiences-that was mine...

Thank you ninja

[wanchain]

"remain positive in thought which didn’t control the situation?"

I would focus on being love instead of being loved.