It feels like i have lost the connection

twinkle77 · #1 20-11-2011, 01:49 PM

Hey all, there has been a MASSIVE difference in how i am feeling recently. Has anyone else experienced such highs and lows?

Basically it feels like i have no connection to him anymore...which leaves me with doubts, I thought he was my tf, now i don't think he was..

I have stopped thinking of him, and my feelings are so different...we haven't even been talking telepathically this week...it's like he has gone..forever..and i don't NEED him or think of him like i did 2 weeks ago..

It feels like this is the way it will now stay but who knows..we'll see..

does anyone have any experiences/explanations for this? Something has definitely happened!

Thanks

#2 20-11-2011, 02:02 PM

It can happen from time to time. It usually means that you are preparing for an important step forward.

miss_believed · #3 20-11-2011, 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by twinkle77

Hey all, there has been a MASSIVE difference in how i am feeling recently. Has anyone else experienced such highs and lows?

Basically it feels like i have no connection to him anymore...which leaves me with doubts, I thought he was my tf, now i don't think he was..

I have stopped thinking of him, and my feelings are so different...we haven't even been talking telepathically this week...it's like he has gone..forever..and i don't NEED him or think of him like i did 2 weeks ago..

It feels like this is the way it will now stay but who knows..we'll see..

does anyone have any experiences/explanations for this? Something has definitely happened!

Thanks

yeah ive had it, seems to come back in force when you need to take steps to reuinite.

#4 20-11-2011, 02:24 PM

Yes, I have had it, I am there now but everytime I except it. It comes back again.

mystical · #5 20-11-2011, 02:25 PM

dont be fooled lol , often when this happens we think .. finally , but then often does the connection come back even stronger and more intense , there have been so many times where i havent felthimn or thought of him as much and then out the blue i have a few days where i think of nothing else , and the longing comes back ten fold . dont give into the doubts , they lure u into a false sense of security making you think he wasntyour twin , maybe he isntbut only u will KNOW if he is or not xxx

linmir11 · #6 20-11-2011, 02:33 PM

ever since I did the 11/11/11 meditation with mind body spirit festival in London it was a great experience. Something changed, still think about my TF and pray for him(he is not well).
I was praying to be set free from this whole missing my tf feeling his energy and moods. As of 11/11/11 I have developed feelings for this other guy for some reason he is similar to my twinflame, he has some qualities as my TF, but I don't know how he feels about me, am thinking he is my soulmate. If something happens with this guy, that would be great,I think I love this guy and find him sexy. Is it possible to love 2pple at the same time?

#7 20-11-2011, 02:56 PM

There are different kinds of love. It is possible to love many people. Being in love with more than one person can be complicated.

miss_believed · #8 20-11-2011, 03:26 PM

i have to say i went through this period and then back to having days where i do cry but it is far far more accepting since i got to the stage your talking about ive always been able to return to a steady place quicker

i thank breathing, yoga, meditation, and centering your self.

Quest · #9 20-11-2011, 04:02 PM

I have had it happen to me as well, and at times I was even angry at him but it does come back with much more intensity! I also had major epiphanies during those times that I felt disconnected from him.

twinkle77 · #10 20-11-2011, 04:57 PM

I appreciate all the quick responses today

It;s a very big contrast to a few weeks ago i was finding it very very difficult, i think it was the hardest patch for me so far...then i happened to see him that time..when i bumped into him on the road and had to stop the car so he could cross in front..that was a weird incident and i am still shocked that it even happened every time i think abt that day!!

well anyway, this is the 'coolest' period i have encountered in the past 2 years or so..and if by what u are all saying re the intensity comes back ten fold then i am not looking 4ward to it

As i thought i had already experienced the highest of the highs!!

i was hoping u would all say that this means he isn't my tf after all

And yes Miss B - centering myself, meditating, having faith and trust in God has helped me immensely in all this..

watch this space i guess!