Grief process

[~Lioness~]

I was told that twin flames can't be anything but friends if a karmic partner is involved in either of their lives.

My twin flame once told me it won't get any better until I can accept friends. Sigh

I'm almost over my grief process that lasted 14 years and I'm seeing I've been In a karmic pattern myself. My relationship with myself hasn't been true. Now that I know that, I am seeking my true self. The truth of me. Which I believe is love.

I miss my twin flame sometimes, the memories are resurfacing these days in vivid detail. I don't know why, maybe my conscious is finally clearing up the guilt and regret and seeing more clearly.

It's been 14 years. I didn't start trying to let go until 4 Yeats ago when I just had enough. I learned the way the path, to finally free her and me, is to go through the grief until it settles. Then it's into the unknown.

So to my twin flame if you're out there. I really don't have much to say to you cause I'm angry and I would rather not come off as harsh.

Has anyone else realized that the grief of a twin flame is the way out? The way to the end of the pain and stuff.

[RedEmbers]

It's grief of a fantasy crumbling away. Pain ends when it ends, it follows its own trajectory, acceptance can quicken the process.

They are not the one if the choose to not be with you.


The fantasy desire is probably still real, just not with that person because that person has their own desires and path to walk and has made it clear that it is not with you.

It can be built with a person who shares the same values and visions as you if that's what you want.

So yes, accept and grieve all while moving forward.

[JustBe]

Yes it’s a crucial core healing path. It takes deep into the grief and it keeps winding you back in until it no longer does.

Everything your seeking through this is spot on.

Your unearthing your true essence.

Everything if it has to fall away.