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[Akira]

Hi Guys

Just wanted to share with you. Have had a major development over the weekend. We blew up at each other it was awful, but then it was as if the sun had come up at night and somewhere there was a glimmer of recognition of trust and the whole episode opened a door.

New understanding and a kind of connection that we have not had for a long time. It was so warm and golden I can't describe it in words...

So here goes I mentioned to him properly this time as I have said it to him before in a very subtle way. However, today I just said I reckon we are twin flames, you could read about it. He said yeah, okay cool. This is such a big step that I feel as if a huge weight has been lifted off me.

Can't know where it will go, but we started talking about the Universe and dimensions and our connection it was new and vibrant and made me have faith in the two of us making it to the point where we together in a deeper more focused way.

Oh and when we blew up at each other I was sooooo ready to denounce it all, yep there was a little Judas in me.

Being a twin is a peculiar thing...
Am feeling that we are getting closer to the truth of what this is really meant to be, not sure if I am excited or perturbed lol .

Sounds good. Isn't this what it's supposed to be about? Helping each other grow and evolve?

My belief is that should happen in all (intimate) relationships so if you want to call it twin flame at least it seems to meet the requirements!

♥

[krammer87]

Ya I've been checking out the twin flame category quit a bit since I joined. I have a major interest all the way though this site. But the image of a twin flame is quite phenomenon. You can't have a good fire without a wind. And I have been mixing and twisting everything I know and got back something I've never known before.

[ssdm1]

Originally Posted by Akira

Hi Guys

Just wanted to share with you. Have had a major development over the weekend. We blew up at each other it was awful, but then it was as if the sun had come up at night and somewhere there was a glimmer of recognition of trust and the whole episode opened a door.

New understanding and a kind of connection that we have not had for a long time. It was so warm and golden I can't describe it in words...

So here goes I mentioned to him properly this time as I have said it to him before in a very subtle way. However, today I just said I reckon we are twin flames, you could read about it. He said yeah, okay cool. This is such a big step that I feel as if a huge weight has been lifted off me.

Can't know where it will go, but we started talking about the Universe and dimensions and our connection it was new and vibrant and made me have faith in the two of us making it to the point where we together in a deeper more focused way.

Oh and when we blew up at each other I was sooooo ready to denounce it all, yep there was a little Judas in me.

Being a twin is a peculiar thing...
Am feeling that we are getting closer to the truth of what this is really meant to be, not sure if I am excited or perturbed lol .

Lol, yes we seem to be at the same point. We had words last week and we do need to discuss what our peculiar, longstanding "relationship" is and what to expect of/from each other.

He is so very busy that I don't see him nearly as much as I'd like. He simply expects me to understand he's "busy" without explanation. I feel rejected, he does not understand why

I really want to get some time to sit down with him and really talk about what our "relationship" IS and what to expect from one another.

I've had thoughts of walking away for this all too, but then I know I'd regret a rash decision. Patience is not my thing, lol.

[Akira]

Originally Posted by Lorelyen

Sounds good. Isn't this what it's supposed to be about? Helping each other grow and evolve?

My belief is that should happen in all (intimate) relationships so if you want to call it twin flame at least it seems to meet the requirements!

♥

Sounds good. Isn't this what it's supposed to be about? Helping each other grow and evolve?

Yes I think it is ...

[Akira]

Originally Posted by krammer87

Ya I've been checking out the twin flame category quit a bit since I joined. I have a major interest all the way though this site. But the image of a twin flame is quite phenomenon. You can't have a good fire without a wind. And I have been mixing and twisting everything I know and got back something I've never known before.

Awwww, now that just sounds intriguing ...

[Akira]

Originally Posted by ssdm1

Lol, yes we seem to be at the same point. We had words last week and we do need to discuss what our peculiar, longstanding "relationship" is and what to expect of/from each other.

He is so very busy that I don't see him nearly as much as I'd like. He simply expects me to understand he's "busy" without explanation. I feel rejected, he does not understand why

I really want to get some time to sit down with him and really talk about what our "relationship" IS and what to expect from one another.

I've had thoughts of walking away for this all too, but then I know I'd regret a rash decision. Patience is not my thing, lol.

Hiya ssdm1
I think that all the steps are laid out in divine timing and sometimes it gets forced to the surface of the relationship so that the work gets done. Which is where the patience bit is needed

As for the rejection - you can work through the rejection you've done so much already and it's a common relationship scenario and once we make peace with it we experience less of it.

You'll get to the talk stage, it'll just happen... It is harsh though, I know.
The truth is the closer you get to the harmony part the more you will feel like walking away. I really empathize with you because I know the feeling.

Ak